(Closed) How far is too far(kinda long)….?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How should I handle the shower situation?
    Stick to my guns!! : (7 votes)
    100 %
    Give in AGAIN and have 2 showers : (0 votes)
    crawl into a ball and cry like a baby...and have no shower : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    1220 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    Our wedding shower was 45 minutes away from where most of the guests lived and they delt.

    Bottom line for me at least:  if she doesn’t want to come, she doesn’t have to come.  

    Post # 4
    Member
    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think you’re right.  I don’t think you’re being unreasonable.  An hour drive isn’t a terrible inconvenience at all.  Your Future Mother-In-Law should allow the invited guests to decide if they’d like to attend and if not, they have the right to decide if they’d like to send a gift.  She’s being a bit rigid.  Obviously she’s annoyed (and not rightfully so) that it’s out of town so she chose to say something that would bother you.  In the end, you can’t please everyone.  And when it comes to your shower, its not your issue,  Tell her you’re going to let your peeps plan it as they’d like and whatever happens, happens.

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