Post # 1
I’m going to make this REALLY short.
Asked a friend to be BM- she said yes but stepped down after Dress shoping ( I was kinda glad about this as I felt I’d made a wrong choice in asking her)
She had commited to things for my shower ( giving professional make overs – and yes they got announced on the invites)
I said something on her facebook she didn’t like so I deleated it and moved it to my wall instead – adults can have different opinions about a person right?
making this super short she never showed to the shower- completly bailed so we had no PMUA for our announced make overs! Tried to contact her she wont reply to phone messages and has blocked me from facebook
So I found her wedding invite the other day… but I don’t have her mailing address- mom said I should mail it to her anyway and be the bigger person….
should I go out of my way to get her address or should I just be like Good riddens! ?
Post # 3
I don’t think she is worth worrying about when it comes to your wedding day. You can always make up later if you feel the urge!
Post # 4
Honestly, it doesn’t seem worth it. Just forget about her.. let her contact you if she wants to make up.
Post # 5
I think, if you are interested in keeping a friendship with her, you should send it. Otherwise, let it go.
Post # 6
She went from close enough to be a bridesmaid to don’t care enough to even invite to the wedding over a facebook post and er no showing for a shower?!?! You were bummed she flaked at the shower and probably a bit embarassed to have to change plans. And that is totally understandable. But I don’t think it’s worth trashing a friendship. Suck it up, get over the shower and invite your friend.
Post # 7
@JenGirl: she threw the fit about facebook not me! Thats why I’m asking she is the one doing the blocking etc- but I don’t have her address to send the invite too I was going to till I realised that I didn’t have the address.
Post # 8
Without some change, I wouldn’t send an invitation. She bailed on your shower, and has blocked you on facebook which usually means “I don’t want you in my life”.
I would give one last chance, but only if she reconnects. So I would phone her (or maybe text), saying words to the effect of, “I’d still like to restore our friendship and invite you to my wedding. If you still want to come, phone me so I can get your address and send you an invite.”