(Closed) How far to go…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: what should I do!?
    Try really hard to track down that address : (10 votes)
    33 %
    Save the stamp and hastle! : (20 votes)
    67 %
  • Post # 3
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    506 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I don’t think she is worth worrying about when it comes to your wedding day. You can always make up later if you feel the urge!

    Post # 4
    Member
    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Honestly, it doesn’t seem worth it. Just forget about her.. let her contact you if she wants to make up.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1686 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think, if you are interested in keeping a friendship with her, you should send it. Otherwise, let it go.

    Post # 6
    Member
    9550 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    She went from close enough to be a bridesmaid to don’t care enough to even invite to the wedding over a facebook post and er no showing for a shower?!?! You were bummed she flaked at the shower and probably a bit embarassed to have to change plans. And that is totally understandable. But I don’t think it’s worth trashing a friendship. Suck it up, get over the shower and invite your friend.

    Post # 8
    Member
    7738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Without some change, I wouldn’t send an invitation. She bailed on your shower, and has blocked you on facebook which usually means “I don’t want you in my life”.

    I would give one last chance, but only if she reconnects. So I would phone her (or maybe text), saying words to the effect of, “I’d still like to restore our friendship and invite you to my wedding. If you still want to come, phone me so I can get your address and send you an invite.”

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