How I know he loves me…

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
57 posts
Worker bee

He bought me a brand new car and paid it off completely (which is a huge upgrade from the old one), when his car is due for a change too. After that purchase, he has to wait three more years to change his car. Basically he prioritized my needs before his โค๏ธ. 

Post # 17
2705 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

He switches my electric blanket on when he goes up to go to bed first (it’s winter here still!).  He knows that I hate loading the dishwasher so he always makes sure it’s done – he’s better at it than me, but that’s not the point!

Post # 18
2456 posts
Buzzing bee

He usually leaves for work before I’m up, but he always gives me a kiss on the cheek and says he loves me before he leaves, and he’s always excited to come home to see me. He’s not big on grand gestures but he is great at the little things that let me know he cares – surprising me with a pair of new gloves in the winter when I complained about my old ones, stocking the freezer with nondairy ice cream for me (even though he won’t eat it), or making me an evening cup of tea. 

Post # 19
929 posts
Busy bee

He surprises me at work with lunch ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 20
1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

He has my coffee ready, the way I like it, every morning when I wake up.

He leaves me cute notes telling me how much he loves me. Today I found one in my underwear drawer.

He always holds my hand in the car. 

He always opens the door for me. 

He got me the puppy I wanted (who now loves him more, but it’s okay because it’s adorable)

He re-did my home office with new hardwood floors and painted the walls the color I wanted while I was on a girls trip two weeks ago


I could go on and on. He’s currently in the living room puting together a storage shelf for my new office. I love this man โค๏ธ

Post # 21
1358 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2027

teacher-bee-in-the-sea :  oh so many things! He loves to make me laugh, becuase he loves the sound of it. He takes care of me, helps me cook and clean. He thinks of me and sends me little reminders of this everyday. He takes care of me when I am sick. He rubs my feet when I am tired…the list goes on and on. 

Post # 22
1353 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - The Lodge at Little Seneca Creek

Even if he’s mad at me, he can’t help but smile when he sees me. When I’m stressed or not feeling well, he makes something delicious from scratch.

Post # 23
2533 posts
Sugar bee

AS I was wondering how to respond to this, Fiance – who was in the kitchen cooking dinner, naked with an apron on – walks into the bedroom with a glass of wine for me, out of the blue. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

– He cooks dinner every single night – and he does most of the weekend cooking, too!
– He always wants to hold hands in the car, or when we’re walking together.
– I can ALWAYS tell when he’s had even ONE  beer, because he is suddenly telling me he loves me every time our eyes meet, no matter where we are.  
– He gets up early to handle everything with the dog so I can sleep in.
– He cooks naked in an apron because he knows I love it.
– If I go through a depressed/low-energy/grumpy phase, he doesn’t hold it against me or get upset. He is very patient, and picks up my slack, and supports me until I’m back on my feet.
– He’s not at ALL a gift-giver, but he knows I enjoy getting small things – so he surprises me every now and then with chocolates or flowers.
– At all times, he treats me with respect and love – even when we are arguing.
– He makes sure to tell me he loves me every night before he falls asleep – sometimes 2 or 3 times. 

Post # 24
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

He gets up half an hour earlier than me almost every day so he can walk the dogs for me. Giving up his sleep so I can sleep longer, that’s sacrifice and that’s love.

Post # 25
1186 posts
Bumble bee


Love reading all these! 

Fiance brings me my favourite foods, and gives me massages when I’m feeling tired and cranky after work. xo

Post # 26
447 posts
Helper bee

He knows my love for ice cream and my horses ๐Ÿ™‚ 

But seriously… there are so many little things he notices and does because he knows I love the little actions he does. If I stay at his house, he always has my coffee ready for me with the perfect amount of creamer. He seems to have an instinct for knowing when I’d rather stay in with him and cuddle or when its time to go out on a date (we typically do not go out on dates often) he just seems to know when its time for us to have a date night. He puts up with my mood swings and my multiple in a row texts and doesn’t get mad (at least too often). I know he loves me because no matter how much I’m on his ass or nagging, he tells me he loves me. 

Post # 27
2926 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

He does a lot of little things that mean so much to me.

He works rotating shifts and days and when he has to work the early morning shift, he’s always super quiet so he doesn’t wake me.  He does the same when he comes home really late.  He always kisses me before he leaves (morning shift) and good night (evening shift).  He knows I love Hershey Kisses so sometimes he leaves a Kiss right next to me on his pillow.

He always holds my hand and gives me random hugs and kisses in public.  He’s not a huge PDA person so it’s sweet when he does that.

He’s always there to listen to me, even if he’s watching his favorite show or in the middle of a ball game.  Just last night I was talking to him about a friend issue and he paused the game so he could give me his full attention.

Sometimes I catch him staring at me and when I call him out on it, he gets embarrassed and says he always wonders what he did to deserve me, and that he’s the luckiest guy in the world. smile

Post # 28
902 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

He wants to spend all his free time with me.  He brings me coffee every morning because he knows how much I love it.  He gives me a massage anytime I ask, and I ask a LOT.  He would do anything for me… honestly.  I am very lucky, but I love him back just as hard ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 29
5091 posts
Bee Keeper

He is willing to make great sacrifices

He has stayed by my side through some incredibly difficult times

He is supportive in every way

He works hard to sustain our lifestyle

He hears me and takes my thoughts into consideration

He wants the best for me and challenges me to be my best

And lastly, he has never turned down my request for a back rub

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