(Closed) How important is loyalty to you in a friendship?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How important is loyalty to you in a friendship?
    Very important. I find worth in my friendships based on loyalty as a first priority. : (27 votes)
    68 %
    Some what important. Loyalty is one of a few factors that I weigh the worth of my friendships with. : (13 votes)
    33 %
    Not important. The worth of my friendships is based more heavily on other values. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    1664 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Loyalty is VERY important to me.  If I were you though, I would still be friends with this girl, just b/c you don’t know anyone else.  I would keep my guard up and keep her at a distance though.

    Post # 4
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    149 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Well there are your best friends and then there’s the rest of your friends.  I wouldnt end the friendship.  Talk to her about it.  Tell her whats up and that she really dissappointed you.  I would be careful what you tell her from now on.

    Post # 5
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’d say it is very important to me.  I am willing to give trust in new people I meet relatively quickly, but if that trust is broken or damaged, I’m very unforgiving in giving it back.  It takes a long time and a lot of effort to earn back my trust once someone has broken it.

    Post # 6
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    2788 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Are you an aquarius by any chance? I swear, I could have written your post word from word, had something like that happened to me. I have the same friend philosophy as you and for the record, I too would be hard press to reestablish any sort of friendship with her.

    Post # 8
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    2788 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    @mrs.peters.to.be: I thought so, I am also.  Seriously, I could have written you post, no joke.  You sumed up pretty much exactly how I feel about friendships.

    Post # 9
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    540 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I also take loyalty very seriously. Early last year I broke off friendships for this very reason. If I were you though, I would let her know how you feel and make your decision after that.

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