(Closed) How involved is your Groom?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1423 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Luckily, my Fiance is super involved. We have the same exact vision and whenever one has an idea, we share it with the other right away. If he knows that the next thing to do is, say, find a bartender, he takes the initiative and starts looking into it.

We’re really lucky that we haven’t disagreed on anything. Well, only three bridesmaid dress choices. When I showed him my list, he didn’t like three, and after he explained why, it made a lot of sense and I ended up removing them.

Also, we balance each other out well. I’m better at researching and he’s better at making phone calls or sending e-mails. So, I give him the info and questions and he takes it from there.

The only really “major” issues is his and his GMs suits. He’s really dragging his feet on this. He really has no concept in mind, other than no tux, which I agree on. I’ve been wanting to give him some visual inspirations, but he does not want me to. He wants to handle it himself and then show me his ideas.

Post # 4
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Fiance barely cares about the details, as long as we walk down the aisle. There have been things he has cared about:

-groomsmen not wearing pink (we agreed on that)

-certain song for our first dance, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaoCY3NK3BE

-what booze to buy (I don’t care, but he is huge into mixology)


I also put him in charge of music, cause I knew he could do it well.

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