Post # 1
How much does he contribute to wedding planning and details? My Fiance it seems is always in the background and never voicing his opinion too much. But then yesterday I showed him a wedding topper that I loved and he basically shot it down immediatley. He said it was too cartoonish and that he liked the one I had shown him before. So he does have opinions and things he likes but I guess for the most part he likes what I pick so he doesn’t need to voice what his picks are too much. I was kind of bummed he didn’t like the topper but it’s his wedding too, just have to keep telling myself that lol.
Post # 3
Luckily, my Fiance is super involved. We have the same exact vision and whenever one has an idea, we share it with the other right away. If he knows that the next thing to do is, say, find a bartender, he takes the initiative and starts looking into it.
We’re really lucky that we haven’t disagreed on anything. Well, only three bridesmaid dress choices. When I showed him my list, he didn’t like three, and after he explained why, it made a lot of sense and I ended up removing them.
Also, we balance each other out well. I’m better at researching and he’s better at making phone calls or sending e-mails. So, I give him the info and questions and he takes it from there.
The only really “major” issues is his and his GMs suits. He’s really dragging his feet on this. He really has no concept in mind, other than no tux, which I agree on. I’ve been wanting to give him some visual inspirations, but he does not want me to. He wants to handle it himself and then show me his ideas.
Post # 4
Fiance barely cares about the details, as long as we walk down the aisle. There have been things he has cared about:
-groomsmen not wearing pink (we agreed on that)
-certain song for our first dance, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaoCY3NK3BE
-what booze to buy (I don’t care, but he is huge into mixology)
I also put him in charge of music, cause I knew he could do it well.