(Closed) How is everyone feeling about………………………..

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Um, I like to think I’ll be ok with it since I know it’s not going to happen, but the truth is, I will be very sad. Silly, I know.

Post # 4
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’ll be okay with it, I think. I know it won’t happen so I’m not terribly concerned about it. Most of my friends are either engaged already or not even close, so it won’t be in my face all the time.

Post # 5
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1306 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

There’s nothing particulary about the holiday season that would make me want to get engaged, i just want to do it ASAP.   LOL

Post # 6
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

This will be my 2nd ringless Christmas, so it won’t be so bad as I imagine it to be, but I’ll be glad when it’s over!

Post # 7
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Hmmm any other year it would be incredibly difficult… this year i’m okay with it, i know it is probably my last holiday season where it doesn’t happen… i am actually extremely excited about christmas!! my sister will invite her guy friend home and M will be there!! it’s the first guy ever to come home.  my sister is also inviting her guy friend home for thanksgiving so we’ll see what he’s going to say (how friggin’ exciting is this?!)

Post # 8
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I feel sad for everyone who’s so anxious, but honestly? I’m feeling great about it. I’m not in any rush – I know we’ll have our whole lives to be married, and right now I’m just loving being where I am, getting to love J and be loved by him is privilege enough!

Post # 9
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

right now: AWFUL!!! long story i won’t get into, but the thought of having to spend the holidays around several people i know who recently got engaged or will be getting married makes me want to vommit. i know this is totally selfish of me, but my still-naked ring finger is causing me serious agita again 🙁

Post # 10
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3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ok I guess! i kinda have to be because unless he pulls something in front of my family on christmas, the proposal wont be happening till next year! Ill deal with it though, It will probably be my last Christmas as a single gal! ahhhhhhhhhh

Post # 11
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62 posts
Worker bee

Umm I’d be crushed. I think it’ll happen soon and I know he has a ring but I have thought it was coming soon and well it never did. Everytime this has happend I feel like I get pulled into a black hole of depression and it gets worse every year. At first you would like it to happen but you realize it may not and hey your not in a rush anyways right. Well then every moment you “think” it might happen and it doesn’t gets a little worse. If you are like me you will eventually (and this is if you’ve been dating for a LONG time) hit rock bottom and you know theres only up now.

Post # 13
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m a little worried. 🙁 He made a joke about waiting until APRIL to give me the ring and I hit him over the head. I think it’ll be January when I get it… just a sneaking suspicion. 

Post # 15
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Boston_Girl – nope! I have a horse, and I named her A Little Faith, Lily for her barn name. When I went to register alittlefaith was taken so I thought lilyfaith sounded cute too. 

Post # 16
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1110 posts
Bumble bee

I’m fine with it.  I think I’d like a job more than I’d like a ring.

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