Post # 17
i’m so with you boston girl! my BF’s best friend just got engaged and they’re really close, so i will be forced to hang out with them and hear all about their extravagant wedding plans, even talking about it now makes me want to vommit. i know, it’s horrible. but i can’t help it! we’ll get through it somehow – i’m just hoping it doesn’t turn me into an alcoholic in the process!
Post # 18
it’ll be okay since I’m not expecting it to happen. Now next year is a completely different thing. I’ll be really anxious by november next year.
Post # 19
Probably not as bad as there’s no thanksgiving, so it’s one less holiday to get through. I have an inkling he may do it at christmas as it will be the first one we will be physically together in the same place on that day since we got together. I don’t know what he’s up to, he’s not giving anything away! I’m kinda expecting it by the time the year is through, if not I’ll be a bit upset but deal with it.
Post # 20
I will be pretty sad only because I reeallly want to start planning a fall wedding for us. I think I could pull it off in 10 months, but probably not much less than that… so here’s hoping for a blingy holiday for all of us!
Post # 21
Abbee! I’m pulling it off in 5 months! No sweat. Just be really, really prepared and then once you get engaged, you can just throw it all together!
Post # 22
Honestly I would be devastated if this holiday turned out to be “ring-free” since we talk about the proposal/ring several times a day and Mr.Snake has said fairly blatently that we will be engaged before Christmas this year— if it turns out something fell flat that made it not happen, I’d be crushed.
Post # 23
Thursday might be a little strange.
My mother is going to have Thanksgiving with the SO and I along with his family. Both sets of parents are privey about the fact that we are “engaged to be engaged” and have found the e-ring. His mother will probably bring it up at the dinner table and I just dont know what I’ll do! I mean yeah, we all know about it but it wasn’t the plan! My mother isn’t really the excitable type (she loves my SO but shes not really all about marriage in general– she’s been single herself for several years, never remarried after she and my dad split 15 or so years ago) whereas his mother is ready for us to start planning YESTERDAY. hmm.. will be interesting!
Post # 24
I am expecting the worst so I won’t be upset if it dosn’t happen……….
Post # 25
i will survive, but i will be seriously disappointed. we have picked out the ring, but it had to be special ordered. he won’t even give me a hint on how long it will take for it to come in…it’s driving me crazy!
Post # 26
i’m feeling fine. i know we’re a bit aways from an egagement so i don’t tend to stress off the holidays. we don’t typically spend them together anyway so there’s no pressure!
Post # 27
This will be our 3rd holiday season together, and the first that I will be thinking about a ring. If it doesn’t happen, I won’t be too disappointed. But if we go through it again next year, I will definitely be not so happy.
Post # 28
I’m waiting for him to get a job in my city. I think he will propose as soon as he gets a job, but considering he’s already been job searching for a year I have no idea when that will happen. Trying to be patient!
Post # 29
I am feeling okay- I am really working on trying to have a different attitude toward the whole thing- Honestly I would be totally bummed if it didnt happen by the new year! I think its hard too because our friends and family say that it will happen when we leave for Mexico New Years! I dont know ladies!!!??