(Closed) how is this for an etiquette breach?!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Don’t go

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@mwitter80: My thoughts exactly.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

At least she told you before the shower so you can refuse the invitation.Embarassed  I feel that that is a huge slap in the face.  It really is like, I accept your gifts but you didn’t make the cut.  I could see if they were having a small destination wedding but still having a normal sized bridal shower (even that would be bad etiquette to me) but to invite everyone other than you and your co-worker is really awkward.  Do you plan on going?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

forget that !

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

of course. So you can give her a gift and buy her drinks. I personally love when people do that. 😛

That’s really rude and obnoxious. Put return to sender on it and stick it back in the mail.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

they didn’t come b/c you had a dry wedding? lame.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

@Klb5882: I think she meant Destination wedding..at least I hope so..anybody that turned down a wedding because it was dry would be ridiculous…or more than likely on my guest list.Embarassed

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I still wouldn’t go. That’s a HUGE etiquette no-no. :/

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope. Just say no.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

Don’t go.  If you really want to be nice, you could get her a card and maybe a small gift wisher her well.  Only if you want to be nice though Laughing

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