(Closed) How Jealous is your SO?

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How Jealous is Your SO?

    Very Jealous - and it bothers me.

    Very Jealous - and I like it.

    Kind of jealous - depends on the situation.

    Not jealous at all - and it bothers me.

    Not jealous at all - and I like it.

    Other.

  • Post # 46
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    Buzzing bee

    Mine isn’t jealous as much as he is protective. He’s never been the kind of guy to be like ‘Why were you talking to him’, but he has flipped out on our 19 year old neighbor for whistling at me. But I think that was more of a respect thing. It’s not cool to be catcalling your neighbor who you see daily. AWKWARD.

    Post # 47
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    198 posts
    Blushing bee

    My SO very rarely gets jealous.  Sometimes it irks me he doesn’t get more worked up over me, but I’ve also dated the exact opposite and would never want to go through that again. Every now and then he has a moment but usually if a guy hits on me he’s like “you’re hot… I don’t blame him.”  And I think that’s kind of cute ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 48
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    DH and I definitely don’t have any jealousy issues, and that’s how I like it. He actually thinks it’s funny when guys hit on me because he knows they’re wasting their breath.

    Post # 49
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    5571 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    My Fiance isn’t jealous. He’s very secure and knows that I choose him so he finds it amusing when other guys hit on me or express interest in me. Those things just make him proud that I’m his ๐Ÿ™‚

     
    I’m the insecure one in our relationship. I have absolutely no reason for this other than my personality. We have never had any trust issues of any kind. I’ve gotten a lot better about it also.

    Post # 50
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Mr. Hedgie isn’t jealous at all. Infact, when another guys seems interested it is kinda like a pride thing for him. Like, “yeah, I have what you want! Deal with it!”. He is very protective though. If something is hurting me or bothering me he is right there to step up and take care of me.

    Post # 51
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Thank goodness my Fiance isn’t at all jealous.  Or if he is, he doesn’t act like it.  We completely trust each other, and for instance, I went to a concert with my old best guy friend on Monday night, and Fiance had no issues! 

    My ex was just the opposite though.  If I even glanced at a male (old, young, TEENAGERS, SENIORS!!!!) he would accuse me of liking them.  He was crazy.

    Post # 52
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    My FH gets jealous only on really rare occasions, when he starts getting in his own head and thinking about stupid things that would never happen unless we lived in a movie. But he quickly realizes he’s being silly and it never goes past that. He never really says anything to me about it either.

     

    Post # 54
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    Bumble bee

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    @deetroitwhat:It’s different but he does not get worked up about much of anything. He is super laid back.

    Post # 55
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    1577 posts
    Bumble bee

    Mine isn’t jealous at all, he loves knowing people find me desirable! Haha, if only I could feel that way about him..

    Post # 56
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    7774 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    He can get jealous about some things every once in a while, but nothing too serious. I wouldnt call either of us jealous, merely…. territorial. lol.

    Post # 57
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Oh man, I could not date a jealous guy. I do not have the skillz to deal with that kind of dramaz.

    Post # 58
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    He gets jealous in appropriate situations…. for the most part. Baha, I was at work one day and he called me. My co-worker started popping me with a rubber band (this is normal for my work environment, we’re crazy). Anyway, I was like “Ow.. you’re so mean!” And immdiately my fiance was like, who is that?! Is he hitting on you? I work at a probation office so he is also concerned that a probationer is hitting on me or something. I was like no… it’s the probation officer… and no he’s not hitting on me! Calm down! ๐Ÿ™‚

    By The Way, we’re long distance, and he hangs out with friends all the time. I’m “allowed” to go out whenever I want without him and he’s fine with it. We just miss each other a lot. Boo!

    Post # 59
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He doesn’t usually get jealous but it depends on the person. He’s more protective I guess than jealous. I’ve had guy friends who developed feelings for me before and now he gets annoyed if I talk to them a lot, especially about how our relationship’s going and stuff. It doesn’t really bother me, as long as he doesn’t get too fixated on it.

    Post # 60
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    1295 posts
    Bumble bee

    My SO isn’t jealous at all.  I once told him about my ex contacting me and he didn’t seem alarmed.  He like I trust in what we have so there is no need to get jealous.

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