(Closed) How long before you consummated the marriage?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 62
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We went to the hotel room, he was a little drunk, I had a headache. He undid hundreds of tiny buttons down the back of my dress and helped me out of it. He then gently removed over 30 pins from my hair while I soaked in the bath. I collapsed on the bed for a while and then we did the deed.

Post # 63
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

A few hours after the reception ended. We stayed at our house the night of the wedding since we had an early flight. We went home, took a shower, cleaned up then opened cards and wedding gifts. Climbed into bed and debated on whether we should do it or just wait haha. I was leaning towards passing the hell out, but DH really wanted to DTD. Rightfully so haha

Post # 64
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I asked him to wait until after I showered and got my makeup off and hair washed, but we did that night at the hotel. We didn’t wait until marriage, but I could tell he was antsy to do it after the wedding 😉

Post # 65
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My husband and I made love the morning of our wedding. We didn’t have sex on our wedding night.

I hope we make love the night we renew our vows. I think that will be very romantic and memorable.

Post # 66
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

Within an hour of getting to our hotel room after the reception. I took a bath beforehand. It was the laziest, most awful sex we ever had – for those who didn’t get to do it, it’s extremely common to be too tired to do anything that day.

Post # 67
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Well, SO and I are both virgins and waiting until marriage, so I don’t care what time it is or how tired we are after the wedding. By golly, we are holing ourselves up in the hotel room and getting it on as soon as step through the door, haha!

Post # 68
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

our reception was at the hotel so our suite was right there, after the reception my bridesmaids and myself all jumped into the pool (them in there dresses- me in spanks and a strapless bra!) got in trouble a few minutes later for being too loud, so we got out. They had to come back to our room to there clothes and and stuff from getting ready, but they left after 5 minutes, so we got into the jacuzzi tub then to consummate : ) I would say married sex was that different but we were so happy and surprisingly not that tired! After we got out of the jacuzzi we were starving so ate then want to bed

Post # 69
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

currently, the plan is to get it on between the wedding and the reception.

We’ll be having a private dinner together while everyone is having cocktail hour and then we’ll come down and be announced. I just really wanted to be able to have some quiet 1 on 1 time before the big party. We’ll both be sober, not tired, and will have just been married, so I think it will be super special.

Post # 70
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

Wedding night, after a mini-photo shoot of my floral bouquet while it was still alive and gorgeous.  LOL!

Post # 71
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

We actally discussed this and the plan was to get it on, but have low expectations because we knew we’d be exhausted. Then my husband had too much to drink towards the end of the reception and he was in no shape for nookie. Luckily, my cousins got me out of my dress and I packed/cleaned up the suite so that we were ready to go to our breakfast in the morning. We had breakfast with everyone and did most of the tear down before my grandmother drove us to the airport. I had been feeling pretty crummy (upset stomach and jittery/shaky/little dizzy) all morning, but felt gradually better throughout the day. We had a layover and didn’t get to my grandmother’s condo (she let us use her condo that is a block from the beach in Ft. Lauderdale) until after dinner. So we got there and unpacked and took a dip in the pool, which was super amazing. I took all the bobby pins out of my hair. Then we went back inside and had some of the best sex we’ve ever had. Seriously. It was pretty awesome. Which I wasn’t expecting, since we’ve been living together for 3.5 years.

Post # 72
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wedding night!

We had big plans to stay at a fancy hotel downtown but there was a major flood that day and the downtown was evacuated, so we just drove home. We weren’t drunk because we were too busy just trying to get married (stressful day – moved the wedding 5 hours before the ceremony).

When we got home, we pulled out a bottle of champagne, some macarons, and had a lovely and relaxing night together.

Post # 73
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Sunset Harbour

morning after the wedding!

Post # 74
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My DH was determined to have sex on our wedding day  – by the time we got to our hotel room. got me out of my dress, got the 90 bobby pins out of my hair, and showered it was after 12 oclock…so technically it wasnt our wedding day. It wasnt that great – but we made up for it in the morning 😉

Post # 75
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think it was the following night.  We were WAY too tired the night of.  It likely would have been the next morning, but again, we were too tired before having to make it to an apopintment. 

We finally got to have a good nap the following afternoon and I think we did it that evening.  Not exactly sure though.

Post # 76
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@lilsweetie:  Ours was the next morning– we went out with friends to a bar downtown after the wedding (yes, we wanted to spend time together, but we were also like “when do we ever get dressed up like this?  let’s go out!)– and there was a bit of a fiasco with our car driver after we arrived back to the hotel.  It took a while to get it sorted out, so when we finally got upstairs, we hung out and fell asleep 🙂

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