(Closed) How long before you consummated your marriage wedding Bees?

posted 5 years ago in 40 Something
Post # 3
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

Two days.

Unless you’re saying like ‘first time’, in which case it was minus three years.

Post # 5
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014



I haven’t gotten married yet, but my Fiance and I have discussed this.




First off, I’m sorry you had such a disheartening honeymoon. You should have gotten better 🙁


Second of all, my Fiance made it clear that we aren’t doing anything the night of our wedding but relax and sleep. We know we will both be too tired to do anything but just that.


However, two weeks seems a little too long to be waiting… I’d mention your concerns, you should be able to discuss it with him and ask what’s wrong.


Post # 6
885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

@donnamy:  same night we got married, but it was not the first time.  

Post # 7
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It took us several days as well (we had been dating for 6 yrs prior however).

Wedding night… too exhausted and stayed up at the hotel having wine and cheese and chatting about the day.

It must have happened in the first week of the honeymoon but I can’t remember. Hope this helps.


Post # 8
5660 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I was on my pd so probably the second day of our honeymoon. It took a long time to get there so probably day 3 of our marriage. Id be pretty upset if my husband had no desire to have axe with me after getting married, and it’s not like I have a high sex drive. Sorry you’re dealing wth this but congratulations!

Post # 13
95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Aww 🙁  This is terrible!  What he is doing is totally wrong.  As his wife you had expectations due to what he promised prior to marriage.  Not to mention a husband and wife consumate their marriage, that should be a given! What’s more the sex is an integral part of intimacy in marriage.  It’s appauling, I’m sorry.


I’m not married yet but my fiance and I have discussed it and we will consumate our marriage as soon as we get home after the reception (we are leaving the reception at 10pm, lol, nice and early).  We have not previously been intimate and therefore we will not wait any longer than like, 10 min after we get home to have our first time, lol. 


Post # 15
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

The night of, but also not our first time. We’d been together for 6 years.

Post # 16
8041 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’m not in my 40s, but my new husband is. We did it last night (our wedding night) super lazily lol just to say we did it.

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