Post # 1
I’m getting married in May of this year, and my FI and I were talking about babies last night. One of my best friends got married and had a honeymoon baby in 2012 and she tells me their marriage has struggled due to having her baby early on. (commnication issues,etc) We have talked about waiting 1 year, but seriously i’m already having baby fever its unreal! I want to wait till we are stable with money and our house etc, but is anyone really READY unless you are a millioniare? How long did you wait to start trying after your marriage? And how long after you started trying did it take to actually conceive your baby?
Post # 3
Started trying 15 months after the wedding. It’s been 16 months, still trying.
Post # 4
@foreverlovex: we started trying about 2 years after the wedding and it took about 6 months.
Post # 5
We started trying right after the honeymoon, took us 12 cycles and fertility meds to concieve.
Post # 6
We started trying 4 months before the wedding (I was 38, DH was 37). Got pregnant on our 4th cycle, but had a miscarriage. Got pregnant the 4th cycle after that and I’m now 13 weeks pregnant 🙂
Post # 7
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
@foreverlovex: 18 months post-wedding and counting!
I’m hoping we’ll start trying some time in the next 6 months though.
Post # 8
We started trying before the wedding. It took 8 months and I got pregnant the month after the wedding 🙂
Post # 9
We started trying 19 months after we got married. We were very blessed to get pregnant right away.
Post # 10
We got married in July 2013 and are planning on starting June 2014 so that’ll be almost a year!
Post # 11
We started NTNP a year and a half after we got married and got pregnant right away. Our “plan” was to really try around our two year anniversary but it happened a little sooner than that
Post # 12
@foreverlovex: We started NTNP 1 month after the wedding. We got pregnant 3 cycles later.
Post # 13
We got pregnant about 3 months after our wedding without really trying.
Post # 14
@foreverlovex: We got married last summer and I wanted to wait a bit longer, but Hubby wanted to get me pregnant since our third month of dating lol! I was able to talk him into waiting until end of summer though. I have been on birth control for 12 years and I stopped in may, but we prevented with other methods until I gave him the “go!” lol
Anyway, it took us 3 circles and Im pretty sure in the first one we actually missed my ovulation. So it took us 2-3 months to get pregnant. I had crazy baby fever before that but when I actually got pregnant i was crying a lot lol caus I didnt feel ready. But a few weeks and two ultrasounds later (once I saw it moving!) the fear mostly went away. My hubby wasnt scared at all, he really just cant wait to be a daddy.
Sometimes the fear (just a few thoughts, no really panic-moments) comes over me again, but as soon as I look at my ultrasound videos, it goes away because it’s just soo cute to watch your baby move. Here is my video from yesterday’s amniocentesis/ultrasound, if you want to see what exactly takes my fear away 😉
Post # 15
Got pregnant 2.5 months after our wedding on the first “try”.
Everyone’s different when it comes to when is the right time. Good luck!
Post # 16
we started 3 days after our wedding because AF arrived the day before the wedding. i was really hoping for a honeymoon baby but…
we are now in the TWW of cycle 4.