(Closed) How long did it take you before you knew he was the one?

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
  • poll: The first night we met.
    Within a month : (17 votes)
    33 %
    Within 3 months : (14 votes)
    27 %
    Within 6 months : (7 votes)
    14 %
    Within 9 months : (4 votes)
    8 %
    Within a year : (3 votes)
    6 %
    Within 2 years : (3 votes)
    6 %
    Within 3 - 4 years : (3 votes)
    6 %
    Within 5 - 6 years : (0 votes)
    More than 6 years : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2009 - City Hall

    Same here. while our dating has helped us grow so much as a couple, and learn a lot about each other, I knew I’d marry him pretty much immediately when we started dating.

    Post # 4
    Member
    416 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2008 - Imperia Hotel (modern chic hotel)

    It really kicked in when we moved in with together (3 months after our first official date) Of course we had rocky moment, but were married now ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 5
    Member
    1428 posts
    Bumble bee

    As cheesy as this sounds, I knew that very night I got home from our first date which was 2 years ago.

    Post # 6
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    184 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Three months exactly, on Christmas ๐Ÿ˜€

    Post # 7
    Member
    160 posts
    Blushing bee

    Right away. He was different. Different in all the ways that made him THE ONE. And no, it wasn’t like it was love at first sight, but i knew there was just something about him that was unlike any other guy I had been with before. Almost 7 years later, I was right ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 8
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    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    this is so totally cheesy, but i knew the second he said, "hey, i’m so-and-so." this really weird feeling came over me, i got goosebumps all over the place and got realllllly overheated to the point where i swear i was having a hot flash! and then the heavens opened up and all i could hear was "ahhhh"!

    okay just kidding about that last part!

    Post # 9
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    5399 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    In retrospect, I knew within a couple weeks, but was in denial about it.  I guess I just didn’t want to get my hopes up.  We’ve talked about it now since we got married and we both knew pretty early on.  We’ve been together for almost 6 years and we both said that the 3 year mark was the definate yay/nay moment for both of us.

    Post # 10
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    2373 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2008

        I knew within the first few months, at first I wasn’t interested at all.  I’m glad he convinced me to go on a few dates with him, I’m very lucky he cared enough to do that!

    Post # 11
    Member
    135 posts
    Blushing bee

    I think it was about 5 or 6 months for me.  Right around when I knew I was completely in love with him.

    Post # 12
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    360 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2009 - Westwind YWCA camp

    @Flamingo: we moved in after 3 months, too!  Things moved so fast, I think we were already there before I recognized it!

    Post # 13
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    487 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2009 - Byodo-In Temple, Luau Reception

    Mr. Sushi and I had a really rocky first year together. The kind of year which makes people question why we even stayed together. We broke up, got back together and he made some changes that made our relationship a million times better. We moved in together after our second year together and things have been sooo wonderful and solid. That’s when I knew he was the one. He just had to grow up the first year we were together. :o)

    Post # 14
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    217 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I knew something felt right the night we went on our very first date, but I was in denial about it until about a month in!  2 years later, and we’re 101 days away from the aisle!

    Post # 15
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    2634 posts
    Sugar bee

    We knew each other for well over a year before we started dating.  Once we started dating I knew within a matter of weeks that he is THE ONE. 

    Post # 16
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    74 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    It was love at first sight for me.  I knew he was the one the first time I saw him ๐Ÿ™‚

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