(Closed) How long did you date before moving in?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How long did you date before moving in?
    less than 2 months : (36 votes)
    10 %
    3-5 months : (57 votes)
    15 %
    6-8 months : (49 votes)
    13 %
    9-12 months : (42 votes)
    11 %
    1-2 years : (86 votes)
    23 %
    2-3 years : (79 votes)
    21 %
    After marriage : (27 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We moved in together 4 months into it.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @princesslettuce14:  There is a photo from my grandparents wedding where this weird, cheesy, stumpy little man shows up grinning. Nobody has any idea who he is aside from “Some Schmuck my aunt was dating at the time” ๐Ÿ˜€ I don’t think it’s an issue of how serious the relationship is, maybe it’s more an issue (from an outsiders perspective) of how likely it is that some schmuck (or worse) will end up in their treasured wedding album?

     

    We moved in somewhere around 3 years into dating. It wasn’t exactly planned out, life just sort of happened that way.

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I didn’t vote in the poll, because Darling Husband and I dated almost 5 years before getting married, and that’s when I moved in. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 6
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    188 posts
    Blushing bee

    @princesslettuce14:  Nope. We don’t live together but I get +1’d to his because all of his friends know he plans to marry me.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    For us it was 3 years

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    we dated a year and 3 months before I moved in. we got engaged 8 months later.

    Post # 9
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    595 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We moved in almost exactly 1 month after dating.

    Post # 10
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    144 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We moved in together after seven months of dating. 

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    We were dating for 14 months before we moved in together.

    Post # 12
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    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    About 15 months.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We didn’t live together until after marriage ๐Ÿ™‚  But we were engaged within 5 months of dating and married 7 months later.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We dated a little over 4 years before moving in together. We moved in together about 3 months after I graduated college. We didn’t get engaged for another 3 years.

    Post # 15
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We moved in together after 1 year, which also happened to be the time that my Fiance’s (then boyfriend) lease was up. We were commuting over an hour twice a week to see one another and we finally agreed it was just ridiculous to continue living so far apart. I was staying at his place on weekends at that point.

    We had already discussed the fact that we saw ourselves getting married someday, and that was just a given by that point, so moving in together was the next logical step. Less expensive and a way easier way for us to spend time together. (On top of the commute we had opposite work schedules.)

    It didn’t feel rushed to us. But we woudln’t have moved in if we weren’t comfortable with the idea of it. I don’t think there is a correct time frame, everyone is different with what they’re comfortable with in their relationships. If it works, then it works, you can’t measure it against what worked for anyone else.

    Post # 16
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Over 3 years (more like almost 4) for us before we moved in together. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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