Post # 32
We were so exhausted by the time we eloped that all we could think of was trying to forget everything that was left behind. We were doing yoga, diving, dancing, exploring for about 4 days before the wedding in Jamaica. In total I would say we were not intimate for about a month. After the wedding we were close again 😉
Post # 33
@Future MrsB: Thank you!! Your comment summed up my reason for stopping perfectly!
I think 2 weeks will be plenty!
To all you ladies who have waited months, and are still waiting a few more – WOW! You sure have some great self-control 🙂
Post # 34
Haha maybe 2-3 days? But we weren’t trying to abstain, just busy with wedding stuff and stayed at each of our parents house! I didn’t see the point either, we have been having fun for 6 years, why stop when it’s finally close to being “allowed”? lol
Post # 35
We didn’t abstain at all before the wedding.
Post # 36
We decided to stop New Year’s day this year, so it will be 7 months when the wedding gets here!
Post # 37
No way we could stop. It would have lasted for about 10 seconds if we had! We actually did it on Thursday do celebrate our last time of living in sin, LoL! It was special for us simply because we were husband and wife, not because it had been a while.
I totally understand why couples choose to, though, it just wasn’t for us!
Post # 38
@Mars62312: “celebrate our last time of living in sin” …LOL
Post # 39
I have no intention what-so-ever to refain from having sex before the wedding.