- 10 years ago
- Wedding: November 2010
ummm 2nd date!! lol!
ummm 2nd date!! lol!
I guess I’ll go with a negative wait time, although SO would kill me for saying it.
We did a play together, where we had to make out and simulate sex on stage (it was a comedy…think dry humping…) Anyway, that went on for almost six months, and then 2 weeks before the show closed, the whole cast went out to a bar, post-performance, and we went home together. Four days later he took me out to dinner.
That was our first real date,
I think we waited about a week. Which was enough for both of us to realize we weren’t just looking for sex, or we would have done it on the first date.. sounds bad, but makes sense to me!
We waited about a month. I was the one that held out, had to make sure he wasn’t just in it for the sex because he definetly tried on date #1! LOL.. BUT we are still together 3.5 years later, so I guess you can say he wasn’t just in it for the sex =)
We waited about a month. I too wanted to make sure he wasnt in it just for the sex but we had SO much chemistry i couldnt hold out any longer!
About 6 months – seems like a long time to me now, but we were teenagers at the time. It is interesting to see all the varied responses (6 years for some! the willpower!). Sex means something different to everyone. For me, it is an essential part of really getting to know someone…I could not leave sexual compatibility to chance.
It was about 3 weeks (which consisted of 3 dates). Also, I first confirmed that he wasn’t “dating” anyone else!
Wow alot of interesting responses. We waited until our 2nd date, which was the day after our first date lol, but only because I was drunk! otherwise it would have been the 3rd haha.
I don’t regret it at all.
My Fiance and I waited a month. Worked out for us 😉
Umm, we went out a few times, and then fooled around on our first ‘official’ date. Sex happened about a month after we started officially dating.
The first time we were an item, we were in high school. We fooled around (but no sex) for the first time on his 17th birthday, four and a half months in. We got back together while I was living in Japan and he was back in the States, so although we had been an item for three months already, our first time having sex was really only about an hour after our first kiss of the relationship and before our first date.
messing around expect for sex i guess 4-5 month, actual SEx 1 year i guess. :/ were TRYING<< emphasis on the trying to wait till marriage but CURS Temptation !
3 weeks…. feeling a little slutty afterwards…. but the timing was right (or at least we thought so after several cocktails- Ha!). I don’t think I’d change a thing !
Fiance and I started dating when we were 16 and fooled around a few weeks into our relationship..but we didn’t have sex until 18, two years later. It was the first time for both of us.
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