(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 181
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

A little over 2 years lol. We waited a while, I do kind of wish that we waited until we got married.

Post # 182
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I was a virgin & was saving myself for marriage.

Met Newby & I we were head over heels before we knew what had happened! We fooled around after about 2-3 weeks, & we made love about 1.5 months after our first date. I thought I would regret it so much, but I actually don’t at all because we are best friends, lovers, and meant to be together.

We would already be married if we weren’t in school & money weren’t an issue, so I don’t feel like I wasted my virginity at all.

Post # 183
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We waited a year, and neither of us were virgins. Patience is a virtue?

Post # 184
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We did it the same night we met Innocent

Post # 185
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We waited a month–been together 5 years now.  Still wonderful every time 🙂

Post # 186
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Depending on how you look at it, either 6 years or 3 days! We met working together 6 years ago, but circumstances made it impossible for us to be together. When I went to visit him last year, we only waited until we had a few moments alone!

Post # 187
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Fiance and I waited 6 months (nearly to the day) before we took the plunge.  We’ve been in a LDR from the start (and still are, 2.5 years later!) since being set up at a mutual friend’s wedding.  It was probably either the 8th or 9th time we’d ever been together in person and not on Skype.  We had been *trying* to wait until marriage, but the tension was too much…and a close friend of mine had given me a condom for the “just in case” situation.  It definitely wasn’t planned to happen that night, as we were at my parents’ house after their retirement dinner.  Fiance was my first, I was his 3rd (mid-20’s when we did).  I will say that I didn’t enjoy it much at all the first time, hurting so badly.  But the next weekend, when we visited again, definitely much better.  It’s only gotten better with practice!  😉

I think if we’d been in the same place, it would have happened earlier than 6 months.

Post # 188
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Helper bee

We were together for 8.5 months.  We were in high school and were both virgins when we started dating, so when mixed with the fact that we were long distance for awhile it makes sense that we waited that long.

Post # 189
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Well we didn’t!  The first night we hung out we ended up fooling around and didn’t have sex because of my ahem monthly visit.  We had sex the first night the next weekend when he was back in town (he was in a city 3 hours away for the first 6 mths).

I would have happily had sex with him the first night though!

Post # 189
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Well we didn’t!  The first night we hung out we ended up fooling around and didn’t have sex because of my ahem monthly visit.  We had sex the first night the next weekend when he was back in town (he was in a city 3 hours away for the first 6 mths).

I would have happily had sex with him the first night though!

Post # 190
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

We waited a whole month.

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