(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 77
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

It was about three months – fooling around and we still haven’t had sex. We have been together for 18 months.

Post # 78
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Wow, it’s interesting to see the variety of answers here!

We waited about a month and a half after we started dating, but we’d known each other for almost a year before we started dating.

Post # 79
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

3 days

Post # 80
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Haha, loved 2dbride’s story! ๐Ÿ˜›

We met online, chatted for a few weeks or so, went on a date and then spent pretty much every waking hour with each other after that other than work hours- we were inseparable. After our first date we waited almost two months, we went straight from just making out to sex, no fooling around inbetween the wait period. ๐Ÿ˜› Bow chicka bow wow. ๐Ÿ˜‰ We have been together for five years and two months now-yay! Btw, the first time we had sex was awful…..hahahaha!!! I think we were both nervous.

Post # 81
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

About 5 hours?

We waited because we met in public. Other people wouldn’t have found it charming.

Post # 82
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

1 month and a day actually lol we spent the entire time before it really getting to know each other. it was the right amount of time for us ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 83
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

After we had the official “title” of bf/gf it was a week later when we became intimate kinda fast but here we are ready to get married haha..

Post # 84
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

We waited about 4 months. Fiance deserves a prize, because we slept in the same bed every weekend (LDR relationship.) Fiance probably wanted to sooner, but he was my first and only, and I waited until I was sure.

Post # 85
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I can admit this because, well, I usually do and I’m not ashamed of it.

We waited about 2 hours. I had all intentions of him being a one night stand. I met him after a long dry spell. I was very sexually attracted to him from the start, and him – being a boy – didn’t need a reason for sex – haha. We had sex within a couple of hours of meeting each other – in the parking lot of a bar! He called a couple of nights later and the rest is history.

Ok, I’m a bad girl!

Post # 86
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I knew Fiance for 1.5 years before we started dating. We waited a month after we started dating to have sex. We “messed around” prior to that.

Post # 87
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My 2 wk rule was the longest two weeks ever, we did everything else but just not that

Post # 88
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Knew him 3 years now, didn’t get intimate until maybe the 3rd month of getting together? :p Had a string of bad breakups and experiences with broken hearts, so I wasn’t sure if I was ready to jump back in with someone else.

He told me he’d rather wait than force me into a decision that would bother me for the rest of my life <3

Post # 89
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Honey Beekeeper

We are still waiting, so we are now at 57 months…!!!

Post # 90
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

We waited about 5 weeks (although I was out of town the last 1.5 of that I think… lol). It actually shocked me how fast that went because I had only been with 1 person before who I had been with for 5 years and I was extremely wary of this whole “dating as an adult” thing. I kind of assumed it would be months before anything really happened but once we made out… well he’s a REALLY good kisser and the rest I guess is history. 

Post # 91
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

yessssss, a lot of other fast hookups around the hive! we fooled around on our first date and hooked up on our second. very, very alcohol soaked dates.

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