(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait before you were intimate?

    1st Date

    less than 3 months

    3-6 months

    6 months-1 yr

    1-3 yrs

    3-5 yrs

    5-7 yrs

    7-10 yrs

    10+ yrs

  • Post # 32
    4354 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We waited until we had been seeing eachother a month.. and officially in a relationship for a week. 

    Post # 33
    595 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I couldn’t really vote because it was before our first date…Embarassed

    Post # 34
    386 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    2nd date

    Post # 35
    9479 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Second date.  =)  It was his birthdaaaaay.  It totally took us both by surprise.  Tons of fun.

    Post # 36
    2273 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Our 5th date. About 3 weeks in. That was actually a fairly long wait for me, 2-3 dates usually. 

    Post # 37
    11507 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    We waited until after we were married.

    Post # 38
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    3.5 years, til we were married. We were long distance for 2 of those years. 

    Post # 39
    2393 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We had been dating two months. It was Valentine’s Day eve (the night before Valentine’s Day) and we went to a romantic dinner and jazz concert, followed by our first sleepover. He brought me a dozen red roses and we had chocolates, champagne and candles. We exchanged Valentine’s cards and little presents. It was definitely the most romantic weekend of my life, and the best Valentine’s Day ever.

    Post # 40
    10283 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I would never sleep with someone on the first date. *insert super judgemental facial expression* I kept it classy by waiting 3 whole days until the second date! 🙂

    And since you can’t tell tone on the internet, I’m kidding about that first part. I mean, I did let him feel me up on the first date so I’m far from innocent. 

    Post # 41
    4605 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We waited about a month into our relationship.

    Post # 42
    826 posts
    Busy bee

    A little over a year.  I’m very surprised by the poll, I never realized so many people started having sex so quickly! Surprised

    Post # 43
    44 posts

    @juliette.eliza:  my SO and i waited 3 weeks.. we met at a bar and didnt go home together that night but saw each other a few times before we slept together, for the first 3 months we were together it was strictly casual (we saw no one else but we werent “official”)

    now almost 6 years on we laugh about it!! I dont mind that we didnt wait that long and we werent a couple before doing it because it was all worth it in the end 🙂

    Post # 44
    5072 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

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    @UpstateCait:   I think we need a “super judgmental facial expression” smiley

    your post made me laugh aloud  

    Post # 45
    1524 posts
    Bumble bee

    We waited until my birthday. Which was about a month into us dating. And I’d spent the night a few times without us getting intimate, which was quite the feat of will power haha.

    Post # 46
    581 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    5 days.  Embarassed  We met on a Friday.  Hung out pretty much every day for 5 days.


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