(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait before you were intimate?

    1st Date

    less than 3 months

    3-6 months

    6 months-1 yr

    1-3 yrs

    3-5 yrs

    5-7 yrs

    7-10 yrs

    10+ yrs

  • Post # 77
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think it was around a month? I couldn’t wait, hehe. Fiance later said he wishes we waited longer – that I was so special I deserved a special first time together Kiss (instead of…ahem…being drunk after a frat party). 

    Post # 78
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We waited about 1 year and a half because when we first started dating we were 15 (halfway to our 16th birthdays) so we waited until we were 17.  

    Post # 79
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Our first overnight date so about 2 months after we met at 2 weeks after our official 1st date.

    Post # 80
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Third date, we also knew each other 10 years and used to fool around a little here and there, (no sex) .. He actually brought this up the other day and I thought it was cute that he remembered that.. He even rememberedthe song that was playing.. I didn’t even remember that.. Those little things make my heart melt :).. Because he’s too manly man 95% of the time

    Post # 81
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    Busy bee

    We were friends through work, we has gone out for coffees before we hooked up. We both broke up with our exs… He told me a few months down the track he wanted to jump on me the day he broke up with her. Classy much? We waited about a week after we were single. So I didn’t feel too much like a hussy ha ha.

    Post # 82
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Midland, TX

    I guess it was about 2.5 weeks. Kinna wish we waited longer but…lol we both had needs..haha

    Post # 83
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @Jenniphyr:  Sounds like what we did, but we were even faster off the starting line.  In general I was very open, but it took a long time before I felt ready to cross that final line, which we did about 1.5 years later (about a month after he proposed).  I’m so glad we waited because in the meantime we explored the full range of ways to enjoy each other short of intercourse and so we really learned to revel in the journey instead of focusing on the “destination.”  It really takes the pressure off when one of us isn’t “on” at any particular time and helps us appreciate how wonderful touch of all kinds can be.

    Post # 84
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I knew him 5+years but we hung out like everyday for a month…then…it…happened…and hasnt stopped since lol

    Post # 85
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I think about two weeks. No regrets. We were going to have sex a few days prior to that, but when Fiance pulled out his condoms they were VERY much expired!

    Post # 86
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We waited about 1.5 weeks… it happened after our 5th date. I knew that he was serious about me and I just couldn’t wait any longer…

    Post # 87
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    Newbee

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    @Cady:  LMAO!im gonna use that one x

    Post # 88
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My Fiance and I waited 5 months but we were also 16

    Post # 89
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We were suppost to be a fling for each other.  He was on leave after being deployed and I was taking a semester off from school.  We met randomly by chance and if it weren’t for my friend we probably wouldn’t have communicated after that meeting.  We went on a date and ended up liking each other more than we had planned.  We saw each other a lot and after a few days I kinda decided that I wanted to get intimate with him.  I don’t even remember how long he was around.  I think it was two weeks.  It was a whirlwind. That last night he came over, we were watching a movie on the couch and he feel asleep in my lap.  I ended up curling up right next to him.  That morning I figured I was saying good bye to him for good.

    I went into work and was really sad.  Then my friend  (the same one who got him to call me) told me to come out of the kitchen and close my eyes, I was really annoyed with her because we were kinda busy, and the closed eye thing didn’t work because I almost tripped, when I opened my eyes he was standing there at the front of the restaurant, I turned beet red.  We sat down for about 10 minutes and he said I don’t know what made me do it but I had to come and see you again.  We kissed and he drove back to where he was stationed.  I figured that was it, the last time I would see him and now I would have a great story to tell but he called me that night, and every night after that.  We had an LDR for a while, then he moved closer to me (this was his home state too), and the rest is history.  

    So I guess the story is that sometimes a fling can turn into something special..

     

    Post # 90
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    Helper bee

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    @UpstateCait:  I. LOVE. YOU.

     

    6 days after we started dating …. and he was my first…

    Post # 91
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I had had a horrible breakup and went to live with now hubby when he was just a friend.  I basically took over his bedroom and felt bad so after two nights we decided to sleep in his bed together but not touch.  It was a tiny one bedroom and he was so gracious to let me crash while I was figuring things out and trying to get away from my situation.  Tension built as I moved out of my apartment with ex and we slept in the same bed every night.  After about a week and a half I decided I wanted a relationship with my friend even if it ended up just being a rebound.  I came onto him one night and he almost gave in but didn’t.  The next night he let me have it though.  It was hot.  He must have been sexually frustrated because when he couldn’t get my shirt off he just ripped it in half lol.  Here he had this girl who was 11 years younger than him who he had been hopelessly in love with for years but she wasn’t available and now she was in his bed and begging for it.  Guess it wasn’t a rebound after all….Wink

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