(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait before you were intimate?

    1st Date

    less than 3 months

    3-6 months

    6 months-1 yr

    1-3 yrs

    3-5 yrs

    5-7 yrs

    7-10 yrs

    10+ yrs

  • Post # 93
    567 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We had been hanging out for a little while – it was definitely less than two months. We never went on a proper date to begin with.

    Post # 94
    4927 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Hehehe..glad to know I’m not aloneEmbarassed……We got very frisky on our first date on a beach….and got frisky again on our 2nd date…..and went for it properly on our 3rd date.

    Sooo out of  character for both me and Fiance….hormones must have known we were right for eachother!!!

    We still laugh about it these days…..we joke all the time about getting sand *ahem* everywhere.

    Oh well….worked for us…

    Post # 95
    4581 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    A few weeks.

    Post # 96
    1789 posts
    Buzzing bee

    It acidentally was a first date, I was NOT planning on it, trust me! LOL. But, right after we, ahem, he asked me out, and a month later we said “I love you” And it has been the best thing that has ever happened to me since Skinny Cow started making knock off Klondike bars(hehe)

    It was the best snuggle afterward, and its so funny looking back thinking to myself “Uh oh does he think Im easy???” That night while we were laying together, cause I always waited 3 months or so, now Im in the best love affair, a waiting bee, waiting to say I do ๐Ÿ™‚


    Post # 97
    1789 posts
    Buzzing bee

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    @RobotBabooshka:  WOO HOOOO!!!! Sounds like a Harlequin novel

    Post # 98
    4640 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    we were just shy of 3 months. it was torture but i consciously decided to put it off so our judgement would be clean and not tainted by sex until we were totally sure about each other.

    Post # 99
    3 posts
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We started our relationship 7 months back and we intend wedding in 5 months time and we are waiting for that special night.

    Post # 100
    900 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013 - Rock Hill Country Club, Manorville NY

    It was a few weeks after we started dating, and 1 week after we were officially bf/gf lol

    Post # 101
    111 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    We waited a month after announcing we were serious.  That was painful, I had a hard time holding back.

    Post # 102
    684 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I knew my partner for about 6 months as a friend. I figured it would be fun to have him as a boy toy since he was young and eager ๐Ÿ™‚ I never expected to fall head over hills for him or get married to him. Well, here we are 7 years later. Life happens ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 103
    310 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    @juliette.eliza:  Me and the fiance did it on the first date, which is funny because I thought I’d wait at least 3 months. 

    Post # 104
    367 posts
    Helper bee

    Fourth date. Now, while we were planning this date, I had told him I wanted to take things slow. Obviously, I changed my mind.

    Post # 105
    144 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We waited until 4 months after our first date because he wanted us to both be in love before we had sex. We did do other things though.

    Post # 106
    233 posts
    Helper bee

    Fiance and I were intimate about 3-4 weeks into our relationship.  Of course, to be fair, I was out of town for 10 of those days.  As soon as we came back, we did the deed – even though I didn’t get in until almost 1 AM!

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