(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait before you were intimate?

    1st Date

    less than 3 months

    3-6 months

    6 months-1 yr

    1-3 yrs

    3-5 yrs

    5-7 yrs

    7-10 yrs

    10+ yrs

  • Post # 107
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    14 months, we were both each other’s firsts at 22 We’ve now been together 5 1/2 years and everyday he still makes me as happy as when we first met ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 108
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    About 2 months to PIV, started doing other stuff a couple weeks before that. We didn’t have a traditional dating setup as we lived down the hall from each other and saw each other quite a lot every day. 

    Post # 109
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    We had sex before we started dating. We were best friends that fell in love so no regrets, he was also my first and he had sex before with 4 ladies.

    Post # 110
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    Newbee

    No less than two years, i suppose. You should go along with him/her longer to comprehend her temperament and thoughts. I think the longer the two stay together, the more they will know about each other to avoid contradition in future. It is better for the after marriage life since you two know how to tolerate and forgive each other. That’s the point. 

    Post # 111
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    It’s funny because he waited like 3 weeks of us hanging out like every day to kiss me, but once that happened, like 2 weeks later lol 

    Post # 112
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    about 2.5 weeks.  we had 6 or 7 dates in that time.  it took him until date 4 or 5 just to kiss me.

    Post # 113
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    Helper bee

    About 2 months after we started seeing each other, 1 month before we officialy became a couple.

    Post # 114
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    One month to the day, but not intentionally, although I’m very proud to say that I waited at least a month! ๐Ÿ™‚ Probably about 12-15 dates or hang out nights. 

    Post # 115
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    By the time we get married it will have been three years. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 116
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Until marriage – 15 months.

    Post # 117
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I think maybe a month. We said I love you before we even slept together. We vowed to take things slow sine we both just got out of bad realtionships about a year ago. But basicly we where watching a movie and kissing and one thing led to another. Three years later still makes me smile. 

    Post # 118
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We waited for about, umm, four hours. ๐Ÿ˜€ So we had sex on the night we met. It was finea nd I don’t think it has affected our relationship in any way. I couldn’t vote, because it was before our first date.

    Post # 119
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @juliette.eliza: I thought I was the only one with a one night stand- turned marriage lol 

    Post # 120
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    Helper bee

    We were supposed to be a one night stand too! It was very out of character for me. It made the whole getting-to-know-you stage a little more awkward. But, it worked!

    Post # 121
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We are waiting until marriage, at which point we will have been together for 6.5 years. We have been together for about 5.5 years.

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