(Closed) How long did you wait?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait before you were intimate?

    1st Date

    less than 3 months

    3-6 months

    6 months-1 yr

    1-3 yrs

    3-5 yrs

    5-7 yrs

    7-10 yrs

    10+ yrs

  • Post # 122
    452 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @juliette.eliza:  Whoops, us too! We slept together a few times over about 4 months before we acutally started dating. When we became more interested in each other (not sleeping together at that point), we held off for about 1 month before being intimate again to make sure we were interested in each other for the right reasons

    Post # 123
    433 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012


    Second date…..dinner/drinks…more drinks back at his place, and then a dip in his hot tub on the roof (yes he had a hot tub and I tried to act not impressed but I really was). Then he put on some music and started dancing for me and yes I gave it up pretty quickly after that.

    Post # 124
    486 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Yikes. First date. Which I don’t do (even though everyone says that! – I really don’t), but who cares it worked out in the end ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 125
    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    We started dating when we were 12… so we waited 3-5 years. We were in grade 11.

    Post # 126
    1675 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We waited 4.5 years, until we were married.

    Post # 127
    1114 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Erm, we weren’t even dating, so -3 weeks? Embarassed  We were best friends and it just kindof happened one night…  We tried to just stay as “friends with benefits” for a while, but it soon became clear that we were much much more than that.

    Post # 128
    71 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We were very young and we waited a year! Probably the hardest year of our lives, but we have been together for 11 yrs now. It’s definately a personal choice, but i could never personally marry someone i havent slept with or lived with…

    Post # 129
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We waited six months.  I was all set to wait till marriage, but it didn’t end up that way. But that’s okay.  I definitely don’t regret it. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 130
    88 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    first date in the back of my car!! Lol my friends said he’d never call me again but now we’re getting married! 

    Post # 131
    4950 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    12 days. Which is not something I ever thought I’d do. I was very much the “save sex for marriage” type, which turned into “save sex for the future husband”. We’d known each other for 3 years and some change and dated before, so that affected things. I wouldn’t have had sex with someone I didn’t know like I knew him. 

    Post # 132
    15 posts
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We waited 4 months.


    Post # 133
    26 posts
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We waited about 3 years. He was very patient! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 134
    60 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    10 months. I kind of wish we had waited longer. I felt I was getting older (22), I was a virgin, and our relationship was in a bad place and I felt like it would help. I even knew at the time that it was stupid reasoning.

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