(Closed) How long did you wait before having sex with your SO/FI/DH?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait?
    Less than a week after your first date : (143 votes)
    23 %
    Less than a month after your first date : (174 votes)
    28 %
    Less than a year after your first date : (175 votes)
    28 %
    Other : (135 votes)
    22 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I think you need a poll with this one so not everyone has to admit how fast it was!  We pretty much did it before we dated… ; )

    Post # 4
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    5 weeks, which seemed SUPER fast to me because he was my first bf after my “hs sweetheart”. 

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch

    lol Funny question.  I feel the same as you about my first time. I had known him for 2 years, but we had actually been going out for 6 months. He was my VERY first (I was 15 when we got together) so I felt it was too soon. I had expectations of my first time being with someone I had been with for a long time and I wanted to be older. So I was not proud of myself at ALL. LUCKILY, like you, it all worked out lol I have been with him for almost 7 years now.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We waited about 9 months after we started dating (about 1 1/4 years from meeting).  We were both young and it was the first time for both of us.  I’m glad we waited for a while – it gave us time to get to know each other.  My family (and I) were very conversative/ religious growing up and I spent a lot of time thinking about what type of relationship I wanted with my Boyfriend or Best Friend (i.e. how physical it would be).  I’m glad I made the choices I/we did.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    We didn’t have sex until we had been dating for 3 months!

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    a little over a year! it was the first time for both of us (:

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    We waited six months (it was actually our six month anniversary) to have sex and it was the first time for both of us.  I was glad we waited a bit because I was much more comfortable by that time than I would have been had we done it sooner.  

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think it was about our third date, and I would so do it again Wink.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee

    Well we had know each other for four months including the time we started dating.  However it was a month after we offically got together.  We just felt it was right for us and it sort of just happened we didn’t plan it.  We were both each other first which is what we both always wanted but we don’t have sex now.  We are trying to abstain until we get married although we have yet to get engaged.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Other: our wedding night after almost 4 years of dating 🙂

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Other:  On our wedding date.. 🙂  You should add that option!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    What about over a year as an option?

    Post # 15
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We are waiting until we get married. He will be my first and my only. Smile

    Post # 16
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Shoot I voted less than a month.. but it was less than a month since we we’re official. It was actually a bit more than a month after our first date.

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