(Closed) How long did you wait before having sex with your SO/FI/DH?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait?

    Less than a week after your first date

    Less than a month after your first date

    Less than a year after your first date

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  • Post # 32
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    1 year and 7 days. hahaha not counting or anything Wink

    Post # 33
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    It depends on how you look at it… Technically, we’d been talking and getting to know each other for a few months since we met through the internet.  However, the first time we saw each other (as in the first time we were ever physically in the same space) we ended up sleeping together.  I maintain that it was a couple of months into the relationship but hubby likes to tease that I put out on our first date Tongue out

    Post # 34
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    almost 5 years!

    Post # 35
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: Private home

    Two years!  Granted, we went on one date, I decided I wasn’t interested, but he kept pursuing me, so we dated  on and off.  Once we were finally permanently “on” I think it took about three months.

    Post # 36
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I jumped him (yes, this is true!) after about 3 weeks (but less than 4) when we started dating. We knew each other for a 2.5 weeks before that. It was one of those friendships that conjured out of nowhere and I knew this would be the most important friendship of my lifetime. (We were not thinking of dating at the time!) And then one thing led to another and then………. bum chicka wow wow! Embarassed He was trying to resist because he thought I would feel like a fool afterwards for jumping into it SO SOON, but I do NOT have any regrets! Would do it the same way all over again.

    Post # 37
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    Buzzing bee

    Date #3.

    Post # 38
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    3rd date. Just like

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    @pumpkinpatch:

    …Can’t remember if that was “within the first week” or month, but it was pretty quick. Good, too ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 39
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Waiting for our wedding day! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 40
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We waited for about 2 years…..granted we were only 15 when he “asked me out” by the school buses HA! We had plenty to occupy ourselves with ๐Ÿ˜‰

    So funny to think about now, 10 years later!!

    Post # 41
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    3 months.

    Post # 42
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    Still waiting.

    Post # 43
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    3 or 4 months after we were officially dating, but we’d known each other for over 2.5 years at that point (DH and I were a good friendship that grew into something more).

    Post # 44
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    3 years!! And no regrets ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 45
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Um…let’s just say we got a little carried away after our first date.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    It was the first time I’d ever done anything like that…and his first time *ever.*  Had I known that before hand, I would have NEVER done it on the first date.  That being said, I do not regret it.  I fell for him the moment I met him, and even though things got started pretty quickly, I knew very soon into things that he was the one for me.

    Post # 46
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Everything went really fast with us. We met 12-20-07, started dating 12-25-07, moved in together 01-03-08 (his parents kicked him out so he came to my place), and slept together on 01-11-08. I WASN’T planning on things going that fast but for some reason I just couldn’t tell him no, he even asked if it’s what I wanted before doing anything! I didn’t regret the decision then nor do I now. He has been my only bf and only love. The only thing I ever did with a guy before him was a kiss…anything after that I put a stop to.

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