(Closed) How long did you wait before having sex with your SO/FI/DH?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long did you wait?
    Less than a week after your first date : (144 votes)
    23 %
    Less than a month after your first date : (174 votes)
    28 %
    Less than a year after your first date : (175 votes)
    28 %
    Other : (136 votes)
    22 %
  • Post # 47
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    15 months, or so, after our first date – right after the wedding!

    Post # 48
    2829 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011





    That is pretty much how it went down for us. I’ve got no regrets and now shame it seems

    Post # 49
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Just over 6 months… it was the first time for both of us. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 50
    1221 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    About a month ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 51
    1310 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    still waiting ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 52
    869 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    @ddw: Awww! I love hearing about people who wait. I always thought I’d be one of them but I guess not. I think it’s sweet though.

    Post # 53
    1675 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Waiting for our wedding night.

    Post # 54
    1568 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 1996

    1.5 years, after we were (privately) engaged to be married.

    Post # 55
    153 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    First date. I’m a slut. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 56
    196 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Fiance and I waited about a month after our first date before we did anything. But I don’t regret it at all.

    Post # 57
    35 posts

    He was my first and we waited (we never planned on having sex, it just happened, so I don’t consider that waiting) 5 months after we started dating. I don’t regret doing it with him, but I still wish I would have waited. No one told me how addicting it is! lol

    Post # 58
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I voted other.  We’d known each other for over 2 years and were already very good friends.  Technically it was the second date, and I wouldn’t let him stay the night!  My BFF/MOH and I were roommates at the time and she kept telling me “Don’t date Mr. Adventure!  You WORK with him AND you work for the VP of HR!”, but I’d been crushing on him for some time, and couldn’t help myself!  I wouldn’t let him stay, because I didn’t want her to find out and yell at me, so poor Mr. Adventure had to leave after the deed was done!  Poor guy!

    Post # 59
    330 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Wedding night after 2.5 years ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 60
    7776 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    After about 2 months of dating.

    Post # 61
    7299 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @UpstateCait: My SO and I have a history. We met when we were 17. I lost my virginity to him. (ha ha ha. I will be able to say I lost my virginity to my husband)
    Anyway, we met in person when I was 18. We slept together the very next day.

    Then we broke up and didn’t speak to each other for 5 years. Then we met up again and we slept together shortly after he got off the plane. ^_^

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