(Closed) How long did you wait before TTC

posted 8 years ago in Babies
  • poll: When did you start TTC
    HONEYMOON!! : (5 votes)
    8 %
    0-6 months : (17 votes)
    27 %
    6-12 months : (10 votes)
    16 %
    more than a year : (30 votes)
    48 %
  • Post # 3
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    332 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    We had lived together before getting married, and we’re getting up there in age so we wanted to try right away. We just had to wait a few months because 1) I didn’t want to get off birth control until after the honeymoon so I could control my period for the wedding and honeymoon and 2) I had to ween off of other meds that I take for migraines.

    Post # 4
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    2207 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    we tried exactly a year after the wedding.  A year and 2 months later we were pregnant =o)

    Post # 5
    Member
    565 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    we’ve been married (almost) a year, but we’re waiting a couple of more years.  we’re both pretty young, so we don’t see a problem in waiting.  if i were ten years older though, i’d want to start trying right away after the wedding!

    Post # 6
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    768 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    i have baby fever sometimes too, but then i realize that we have so many trips and celebrations coming up this year that being pregnant/having a little one would really put a cramp in our plans! i also want to enjoy more time with just the two of us before we start building on our family!

    Post # 7
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    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I get baby fever sometimes.  But I definitely want to wait until I am farther in my career and so is he.  I plan to wait until I am 30.  I always wanted to.  Plus, we would be equally happy adopting (we would actually prefer that if we can afford it).

    Post # 8
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    893 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    My Fiance thinks he’s getting too “old” and is ready to start trying as soon as we get married.

    He’ll be 25 at the wedding. Since when is that old?! I’ll have just turned 24.

     

    Post # 9
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    931 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I am feeling the baby fever a bit as well. But my Fiance is actually older (he’s 13 years older than I am and I’m 28) so I think he is feeling intense pressure/desire to have kids like 6 years ago.

    As a result I think we’ll give it somewhere between 5-10 months of organizing our newly married lives but pretty much start as soon as we can.

    Post # 10
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    338 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We’ve decided to wait a year after we are married to start TTC.  It gives us time to get into our married groove (though we already live together) and hopefully do some traveling.

    Post # 11
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    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    @R.Elliott: Wow my husband is 27 and he doesnt want to have kids for several years!

    We will probably start TTC once we have been married for 4 or 5 years

    Post # 12
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    64 posts
    Worker bee

    We waited 6 months:)

    Post # 13
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    2538 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I took BC on the honeymoon until I could be sure of no period (like day 4).  So right away!  But we are 30 and 41 and have been together over 4 years.

    Post # 14
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    5153 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    About a month after 🙂

    Post # 15
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    948 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    We waited for 4 months to start trying… only because I wanted to change to a better insurance plan once married.  If it hadn’t been for that we would have been trying for a honeymoon baby or even sooner 🙂

    Post # 16
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    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    When we got married we said we wanted to wait 2 years before having kids.  We are currently on track.  We wil start TTC by the end of the summer.  That will be 1.5 years after we got married. Very excited. 

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