- 2 years ago
- Wedding: October 2018
Well we are almost in the same boat! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5.5years. We just bought a ring together (online, I choose every single detail) and we even used our joint credit card to pay for it, although he says he will make all the payments which I’ll probably hold him too. The ring arrives in about 2 weeks. I want him to propose the day we get it. Although I’m sure he will probably wait for the weekend which will kill me. I’m hoping he uses this time until we get the ring to plan a nice proposal. I already told him that he needs to get a friend with a nice camera to get pictures.
For us, the ring was the only thing holding us back. Since we wanted an official proposal. I can’t wait to plan a wedding, his siblings have been bugging us for ever to “just get married already!” And my mom has told him over and over that he has her blessing. Plus I wanted a longish engagement, I want to be a bride for as long as possible! Haha
For you, it just seems that he needs a little “push” Honestly it took me 3 months to get my FH to buy the ring after we decided that it was the right time. Your guy might just want to plan the PERFECT proposal. You never know! Just tell him that you want to wear the stunning ring that you spent so long designing, and it’s really upsetting that you can’t.
Best of luck!