(Closed) how long did you wait to give fh the panties

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 47
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Well, fi & I knew each other for 3 years before we started dating. But it was about 5 months after we starting seeing each other.

Post # 48
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

2 weeks (second date).

Post # 49
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

It’ll be four years, two months and eleven months. He is not a virgin but I am and I told straight up four years ago that my body is for my husband and he respected that. You know your fi loves you when… 🙂

Post # 50
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@futuremrsk18:  uh yeah could have been a lot longer! I made mine wait 3 years.

Post # 51
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think it was 3 weeks before we first attempted it. I say  “attempted”, because (TMI) it wouldn’t go in! I was by no means a virgin when I met Fiance, but he is, ahem… (more TMI) very well endowed. And I’m a petite person.

 

After two more weeks and two more attempts, we were finally successful, lol. But we are currently long-distance, so every time we are together again, the initial “go time” takes awhile. It will be nice when we are finally living together again!

 

Geez, my fiance would be SO embarrassed if he knew I was writing this!

 

Post # 52
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@strawbs:  hahaha see?!?!  I’ll let him see this post lol

Post # 53
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We also waited a whole year. We were both virgins, though, and had been doing everything short of actual intercourse since the beginning haha. But we had a very memorable one year anniversary!

Post # 54
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

2nd date 😉 

Post # 55
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Worker bee

After about three months, and only because that was the first opportunity we had to do so. In previous relationships we had had sex before we even became an item. I don’t think it’s “slutty” to have sex with someone before you’re in a relationship or quickly after entering into a relationship. Don’t put yourself down, ladies, even if you’re just joking!

Post # 56
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I also had not heard that term previously.

Not until we were on our honeymoon, which was about a year and five months from our first date. 

Because of my faith, it was very important to me to remain a virgin until after I was married. My Darling Husband is a pastor who had been married previously for more than 20 years, but it was extremely important to both of us that we not do anything beyond kiss each other until after we were married.

Post # 57
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

my Fiance and i slept together after a week. it was like our fifth “date” (we hung out pretty much every day) and we had already told eachother we loved eachother by then.

Post # 58
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@ohcaptainmycaptain:  I think it’s wonderful that you made that commitment to wait for your husband and that your SO/FH has respected and honored that! 🙂

Post # 59
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2018

@everyheart:  I have the same problem. We see each other all the time, but rarely have the alone time to be intimate. If we go longer than a week, it can be a problem! Lube helps, but I’ve ended up with tiny tears more than once.

Post # 60
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

The night we became official LOL

Post # 61
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Maybe 5 or 6 weeks after we met? I think it was our fifth time hanging out (we’d really only been on one actual date, we mostly just spent time at each other’s houses.)

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