(Closed) How long did you wait to have sex for the 1st time with your fiancee/husband?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
2129 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

We still haven’t done it yet. My plan is to wait until marriage (and he said he respects that). Reflecting on my past, doing the deed f*cks up my rational thinking and I end up putting up with $h*t that I KNOW I shouldn’t so this go around I want to have all my rational mind so no more sex for me until I’m married to the right guy for me.

Post # 32
6436 posts
Bee Keeper

NATO:  We weren’t together, we worked together and after a few weeks of working together (a month of him hitting on me straight, yes I’m that oblivious), we all went out with a bunch of co-workers after work.  Despite not realizing he liked me, I knew he was the one when I met him.  We hit it off, and slept together (a week later he asked me to be his girlfriend).  I actually thought this would be a one night stand so I didn’t think too much of it and saw him several times over the week (he asked me to be his girlfriend on the weekend).  A year and a half later we’re married with a baby.

Post # 33
677 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

EHHHH almost a month a think?

Post # 34
2389 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Uh, 4 days before our first official date?  We met at the bar across the street from my house, then I saw him there about a week later, then a couple weeks after that I was there and texted him to see what he was up to – he called me immediately and hopped in his car.  We had our first (somewhat drunk LOL) kiss at the bar and then he came home with me!  That was a Monday and then he took me out for sushi the following Friday.  10 months later we were married!

Post # 35
6436 posts
Bee Keeper

mggBoyles:  You sound like my kind of lady!  Definitely a classy lady ๐Ÿ™‚ your situation is similiar to mine.

Post # 36
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Antique Rose Emporium


The first day I met him we had sex. That sounds AWFUL!

We dated for three years online, talking every day and were very committed to each other. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but we were both virgins. Then one summer He came to visit me for three days and on the first day, we went to the beach and walked around talking and getting used to each other IRL. Then we had sex. LOL.

It was our first time meeting AND both our first time having sex!!! It was kind of weird bc it was new and we were inexperienced but I love the memory. I LOVE that we lost our virginities to each other and now 6 years later we are getting married. I love him so much ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 37
2528 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

The morning after our wedding.

We were together about 3 years 4 months before our wedding day. He was my first.

Post # 38
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Hmm.. about 4 hours. <br />He was supposed to be a rebound, one night stand but he stuck around.. We’ve been together for 8 years, married for 2.

Post # 39
11102 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Eight months.  I was going thru a nasty divorce from my abusive ex, so dh never pressured me in the slightest.  Perfect gentleman.

Post # 40
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MrsWe:  I love the decision you’ve made. Respect:)

I always said id wait til marriage. But thats when i thought id be married by 21,like my parents.

I waited 5 months. My fiance was my first. But truthfully,I think I was like,I’m 22,just get it over with.I mean,I loved him by that point,but it was just kinda like…**** me already! 

Post # 41
3113 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

I invited him to stay the night on our third date but it didn’t actually happen for a few more weeks (I’d say a little under two months after our first date). 

Post # 42
2680 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

About two weeks in ๐Ÿ˜‰

But here we are almost 6 years later!

Post # 43
2119 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

NATO:  i would have done it the night i met him. i had always wondered what that would be like (since before him i was in a very long relationship) but he insisted we wait. it wasnt until a month and a half later that we finally did it. i think it was the night he actually asked me to be his girlfriend. ๐Ÿ˜‰ that was almost 10 years ago

Post # 44
14 posts

My bf and I met online and talked everyday for 5 months. We then met in person and spent a week together on a busines trip I had to take. We became official after that trip and spent more time together in person but it was about 2 months before we actually slept together.

Post # 45
4531 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

About two months. He was the one who held off, not me! We had slept in the same bed a few times until it happened.

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