(Closed) How long did you wait to have sex for the 1st time with your fiancee/husband?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: Either Philadelphia City Hall or a small chapel.

4 days after we met. We decided to become an item while still naked in bed in the morning.

Post # 47
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: mountain venue

Like 5 minutes…Go ahead, call me a whore hahaha. I’ve only been with 5 guys including him and all of them had to wait for it and I had just gotten out of a really bad 2year relationship and thought I was just having fun but we ended up falling in love and have been together for 7years and have 2 boys.

Post # 48
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Bumble bee

We’ve been together for over two years, but we haven’t had sex yet. We’re getting very close to figuring it out, though. Probably the biggest reason DBF and I haven’t had sex yet is that we were both virgins when we started dating.

Post # 49
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I think it was about 2 and a half weeks after meeting each other on a blind date and a week after “officially” becoming bf and gf. I actually took his virginity. Now, 3 and a half years later we are engaged. He’s my other half πŸ™‚ 

Post # 50
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

2.5  months, when his parents went on vacation. I was nervous since it was our first time truly alone together, but he didn’t pressure me at all. Which in turn made me realize I loved in and wanted to sleep with him.

Post # 52
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Helper bee

A few days, like two dates. 

He was my first and is the only one I’ve been with, and it’s  been almost 6 years and were still together so it worked out πŸ™‚

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 4 months ago by  LAX03.
Post # 53
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Helper bee

My SO and I were both virgins, we did it around the 7 month mark. 

Post # 54
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Three months. He was my first, I was his fifth.  I don’t think it bothers me because he’s great in bed and also I waited just as long as I was ready and had decided that our relationship was very serious.  We’ve been together four years now and got engaged a month ago.

Post # 55
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

My husband and I slept together after our first date. We certainly weren’t each other’s firsts, and there was no point getting attached if there wasn’t sexual chemistry. 6 years, a house, a new cat addition and a wedding later, still happy πŸ™‚

Post # 56
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

First date was a Monday. Second date was Thursday and we slept together. Friday I moved in. πŸ™‚

5 years (6when we get hitched) and a 2 year old later, and here we are.

Post # 57
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

About 3 months. And that was 3 months of basically living together! It was so hard not to, but we definitely did other stuff in the mean time!

Post # 58
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

About a month in… but after our very first date, we literally saw each other every other day since then, so it was kind of like on our 15th date πŸ˜› hahaha

Post # 59
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

About 4 hours after we met. Is that weird? Lol

Post # 60
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

We were both virgins and super young, so it took a full year! but we were in different schools and didn’t see each other for weeks at a time sometimes, so that could explain it too! 8 years together now!

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