(Closed) How long did you wait to have sex for the 1st time with your fiancee/husband?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 61
1983 posts
Buzzing bee

It happened on our wedding night. 4 years one month and 25 days after our first date.

Post # 62
1324 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

i think like 3 weeks after our first date…? 

Post # 63
671 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Ceremony and Reception: Historic mansion on the water

Three months.  The ninety day rule.  LOL!

Post # 64
527 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

NATO:  We have been friends since we were 14 years old. Started dating when we were 16.  I made him wait 3 months from when we started dating.  I thought it was a long enough wait to prove to him that I wasn’t ‘easy’ lol


We are now 24 years old ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 65
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

2 years  =)

Post # 66
6290 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

NATO:  We had sex with each other a few times when we were 16/17. We didn’t see each other for a while after that, and then we hooked up again a couple years later when we were 19 and started casually seeing each other/having sex. We were ‘official’ 4 weeks after that. 

Waiting clearly isn’t our style lol 

Post # 67
9753 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

First date, no shame!

Post # 68
192 posts
Blushing bee

FutureDrAtkins:  Ha first date here as well! Glad I’m not the only one ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 69
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

4 days shy of a month together. That being said, I would have slept with him on our first date (I invited him to stay over), but he had a 3 hour drive back to his place, and had to work in the morning… I don’t know why it took us almost a month, lol.

Post # 70
3507 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

6 weeks!

Post # 71
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Blue Horse Farm

First date!  LOl but we had known each other for two years prior.  We worked together but he had a girlfriend the whole time, we just would flirt (nothing serious or anything, he was respectful of his gf, but I could tell he was into me). 

After him and his girlfriend broke up I actually backed off because I didn’t want to rush him or be a rebound.  A few months later he finally asked me out and we went for a few drinks and a little dancing.  Obviously, with chemistry for the last two years and finally being able to act on it I went back to his place that night and the rest is history ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 72
604 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

He is neither Fiance or hubby (he is a very new boyfriend) but I think we had sex on our third time hanging out. I’d only known him about a week or so. Usually I tend to try to wait longer, this just kind of happened… but everything seemed to work out pretty well so no complaints here. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 73
2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I think it was about 2 months after we starting dating.

Post # 74
3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


There is already a long thread with the same question. 

I waited six weeks. I don’t think I waited very long. My husband says that he was used to having sex after only one or two dates, so in his eyes I took a long time to make love with him.

He says that he had to wait the longest to sleep with me and it was worth the wait. 

Post # 75
1410 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We met online, and it was on our fifth date, 25 days after our first.We fooled around on the 3rd, and the only reason we didn’t go all the way is because I told him I didn’t want to because my therapist had suggested I hold off longer, and I kept thinking about changing my mind, but he’s a gentleman (:

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