(Closed) How long did you wait to have sex for the 1st time with your fiancee/husband?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 76
34 posts

I would say about a month… don’t really remember lol. We met in college when moving into the dorms freshman year, we were neighbors. We started dating about a month after moving in then had sex about a month after that.

I always told myself that I would wait longer becasue I was a virgin but that didnt work lol. I’m glad that I did what I did though. 

Post # 77
2371 posts
Buzzing bee

NATO:  We waited a couple of months, but it was a little shorter than I have waited in the past. I generally wait a few months to really get to know someone well. I quickly get attached to someone through a physical relationship and so I like to make sure that all the other components of the relationship are there and working before I have sex with someone.

Post # 78
3875 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

NATO:  We knew each other for about a year and a half before we started dating, so *technically* we did it on the second date, but it felt like we had been together so much longer. 

Post # 79
716 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

About three weeks. 

Post # 80
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

wedding night 🙂 


Post # 81
136 posts
Blushing bee

Our wedding night (we were both virgins), which was the same day as our first kiss (my first kiss ever).

Post # 82
5364 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

We met in September. Had our first kiss in October. Asked me to be his girlfriend in December. And then we had sex the end of January. He was my first. 5 years later we are engaged! 

Post # 83
4 posts

NATO:  ha it seems like a lot of bees have similar answers, but I knew my fiancée for about year before and we would go out together as friends and all that, even though We both were attracted to each other we had other people and things going on so it wasn’t till a year later we became “friends with benefits” and from there were became offical a month later. 

Post # 84
3449 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

we haven’t gotten around to it yet. Our first wedding anniversary is next month.


NOT! It was our wedding night, which was ~17 months after we met 

Post # 85
571 posts
Busy bee

5 hours. Ha

Post # 86
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Maui

2 weeks. We were an official couple at 3 weeks.

Post # 87
2770 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

3 – 4 months – my husband was hilariously shy in the beginning… but I guess it was extremely respectful.  It took him a month to even kiss me. Now that I look back,  it was so cute!

Post # 88
11480 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

We waited until we were married. That was 16 months after we met in person. (We connected online via eHarmony a couple of months prior to that.)

My husband had been married before for more than 20 years but believes in celibacy outside of marriage, and I had never been married but share those same beliefs.

Post # 89
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Still Waiting…Patiently…

Post # 90
690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

few hours maybe..

it was our first date, and second time we have seen each other


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