(Closed) How long did you wait to have sex for the 1st time with your fiancee/husband?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 91
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Hanover Grande Ballroom

we were friends for about a year, with him having a little crush the whole time, and me ignoring it.

we started dating officially after our first ‘date’ jan 22, 2009, and had sex the first time together 2 1/2 weeks later.

Post # 92
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Three weeks. And boy that took some self restraint!! 

Post # 93
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Busy bee

5 months of dating. Wow. I’m a prude apparently.

Post # 94
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Alexander Homestead

NATO:  6 months. Been together 8 years this month! Crazy how time flies. 🙂

Post # 95
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Newbee

First date… No shame. I wanted it.. 

Post # 96
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Ah 2 weeks! Which was the quickest I’ve ever slept with someone… though I hadn’t had many partners before Darling Husband. I met him in my early 20’s. It sounds corny, but I just had a “feeling” that he’d end up being the guy I married. No shame.

Post # 97
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Bumble Beekeeper

After 4-5 months of dating. Now we’re engaged.

Post # 98
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

After a year and a half of dating! We were both each other’s first.

Post # 99
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Interesting question…. we met in 2006 but we were both seeing other people and had absolutely no friends in common. In 2008 he became my TA in college, and we started talking and hanging out as friends. That was more or less in May-June. I July we were seeing each other really frequently but I told anyone who would listen about how “he was my friend and I Didn’t like him like THAT”. We kissed for the first time in August, I was really awkward with him for a while after that and then it happened after 3 or 4 weeks. So that question could have many different answers…

Post # 100
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I could answer this a few different ways lol My fiancé and I met online when I was 16 and he was 21. Talked everyday online or via phone until I broke up with my SO when I was 22 and moved to NY (where he lived) and by surprise ended up living a block away from him! We immediately started dating and we were seeing each other “in real life” for about 4 months before we did anything more than kiss. I thought it was weird, but it turns out he always knew we’d somehow end up with one another and he saved himself for me. I was super weirded out by it at first, lol (shame on me) but it’s sweet looking back on it now so many years later.

Post # 101
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Worker bee

Well, we weren’t dating the first three times, but we had been friends for three years, and we’re fighting it. We finally gave in and made it official after Oops #3! Third time’s the charm!

Post # 102
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Brussels, Belgium

A little over a week. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but it probably would have been a tad sooner had it not been that time of the month. Now it’s been three years and we’re getting married in a month.

Post # 103
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Two days after we made it official. LOL. But we were best friends and started dating. He’s the second guy I’ve ever been with.

Post # 104
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Newbee

I knew him, in passing for about a year. He pursued, I resisted. 

When we finally went on our first date: BANG BANG! Ripping posters off the walls kind of crazy sex:) 

*Sigh*

he was a very handsome bad boy type so I figured I’d have a summer fling… Turned out to be my soulmate.

Post # 105
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

We waited one year. ❤️ we knew each other in our teenage years in school choir …reconnected years later. 

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