Post # 1
I have 4 girls and I have their dresses and shoes picked out. None of them have purchased them yet, although I have told them that the shoes are being discontinued. I’m freaking out, but I have a feeling I’m going to have to compromise on the shoes and get different ones. I know that they’re not all 4 going to buy them before they’re unavailable and I don’t want one or two of them to buy them and the other two not to have them… What do I do? And how long is the appropriate time to let them wait to get their dresses?
Post # 3
Mine was 4 months before the wedding
Post # 4
does it matter if their shoes are different? what is the style of the dresS?
Post # 5
My sisters bought theirs last week. I told my bridesmaids that their dress was their responsibility. Just gave them the color that it had to match.
Post # 6
I have three girls and as soon as I had the dress picked out they ordered. Shoes have been a different issue just because we’re looking for bronze sandals and they just aren’t available at all until the fall.
Post # 7
I have 4 girls. Three bought their dresses about a year out. The other one just bought her dress two days ago (My wedding is in 4 weeks). As a gift to them, I bought them all their shoes when they were on sale. I also bought all their jewelry custom made as gifts to them too.