(Closed) How long do you stay mad at your SO for things they did in a dream?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Darling Husband has never done anything awful in a dream, so he’s never had to pay.  I once had a terrible dream about my dad, though.  I can’t remember it very well, but I think him cheating on my mom and throwing it in her face was the least terrible of everything he did in the dream.  I felt weird whenever I thought about him for WEEKS afterward.  Fortunately, this dream happened while I was living overseas, so I couldn’t really make him pay for anything because we only texted occasionally and talked on Skype about once a month.

Post # 4
5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Also, I’m glad I’m not the only one who ended up being upset at someone for something a fictional representation of them did in my head.

Post # 5
9687 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Haha!  I’m the same way, I get furious over stuff that happens in dreams.  Even telling myself it was just a dream Does. Not. Help.  !!

I told my Fiance once that I was mad at him about a dream and he thought it was kinda crazy.  Luckily I’ve only ever had one weird dream about him so far.  I only stayed mad through breakfast, though, I was over it by lunch.  I don’t remember the exact details of the dream but I figured out it was from the plot of a stupid movie we’d watched the night before.  LOL!

Post # 6
3770 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

LoL omg yes, I think a few hours or maybe even half a day, which was really bad because it was on the weekend so we were with each other all day, not me stewing at work or something.  It’s so silly, but sometimes dreams feel so real!

Post # 7
521 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012 - Salvage One, Chicago

I’ve had dreams a little like that, but I can’t say I’ve ever stayed mad.  Ever.  It’s a dream.  Not reality.  I really hope no one stays mad at their SOs for this kind of thing…it’s ridiculous.

Post # 8
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Haha! I do this to Fiance all the time. Whenever he is mean to me in a dream, he pays for it the next day. Big time. He thinks I’m a little insane, but I think he likes it.

Post # 9
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@iarebridezilla:  That is so true- real life Darling Husband shouldnt pay for dream Darling Husband, made me laugh! I always have crazy dreams about my Fiance and he talks a lot in his sleep too. I get mad sometimes but later kinda laugh about it, he shouldn’t have to pay for my creative mind dreams!

Post # 11
1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I usually tell FH about it as soon as I wake up, he says ‘Oh no I’m gonna pay. Aren’t I?’ and then we spend the next day or two turning it into a big joke between the two of us. It ends up getting quite funny at times especially when others have no clue and think that you are actually mad at each other until we burst out laughing.

Post # 12
347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hahahahaha – I have definitely had dreams where Fiance has done some unspeakable things. But usually, once I realize that I was dreaming, I’m over it.

I usually tell him all about it, and then he says that Dream Fiance is a jerk, and that he’ll punch him for giving me bad dreams 😉 haha

Post # 13
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh my.. this DID make my heart pounce..Cry because although i don’t recall a single thing i did sleeptalk a few weeks ago and what i said was just horrible, horrible..it was bad enough to power me to finally conquer my fear and see a therapist (next thursday!). I know i am not to blame as i was sleeping but what my husband heard me saying was just awful and since then we’ve been weird..much to my dismay, sorry and stupid guilt. Please, it’s not fair on your D.H. that you get mad at him because of what YOU dream about. Suppose he was sleeptalking and was for example was arranging a sexy meeting with that neighbor???? Can’t even immagine what your reaction would be..and THAT wouldn’t mean he was attracted to her or in any way not happy with you!

I am sorry, it’s just that this is a very touchy subject for me and i honestly believe it is not fair.

Post # 15
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012 - The Chapel of the Sir Christopher Wren Building, 2007 Legacy Hall

Ugh. This happens to me. I have VERY vivid dreams. I try not to actually be mad at him, but I know that when I wake up I probably look at him funny. It always takes me a little while to shake the feelings off!

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