(Closed) How long does he last?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It depends on what sort of mood he’s in.  J usually lasts a decent amount of time. Sometimes he’ll hold back too long and it’ll be harder for him to orgasm.  But most of the time we could have sex for about 30-45 minutes.  

ETA: If he’s tired, sore, etc, he won’t last long at all.  We will usually stop.  He feels bad, but it’s understandable.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

It totally depends on the mood he is in, and what position we’re in.  Some positions make it harder for him to hold back, but he lasts long enough that we usually can get off about the same time.

Stress will do a number on anyone’s ability to focus during sex.  Maybe incorporate a sexy massage or something during foreplay?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

10 minutes?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If you add a poll, more people will answer.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It varies alot for my Fiance. It depends on how often we have had sex that week… if we haventhadf it very much then he wont last that long, but if we have had frequent sex then he will last a long time

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

So my Darling Husband always has an orgasm within the first time in 10 minutes or so. However, he can have multiple orgasms so he can keep going as long as I want him too. We usually have sex for 30 minutes or so.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

R. can last a very long time. He never finishes before me, as he likes to make sure I’m taken care of. We usually have sex from 30 minutes to an hour, depending.

However, when we’re away from each other a long time, it takes maybe 5-10 minutes. But the good thing is that he can orgasm multiple times when he waits a long time, which he can’t do when we’re having sex consistently. So there’s pros and cons to both! Luckily for him it doesn’t take me very long to orgasm either!

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Put up a poll, that would allow me to answer 🙂

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’d generally say about 15… which honestly is fine with me.  We do plenty of other stuff first, and sometimes it starts to be uncomfortable if we go too long.  I will say, Fiance has trained himself to be able to hold back most of the time.  I swear, he’s like a ninja with his restraint skills.  Very impressive.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

2-3. I prefer it that way, TBH. (I mean 2-3 once he’s inside me…is that what everyone else means? He’s “up” a lot longer than that)

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

hmmm, yeah, if you edit this to a poll i think more people will answer 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Usually around 30 minutes because thats what I prefer… I told him very early on he took too long… lol He’s got good control over the time unless were drinking then it never ends… ugh.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

Depends on what position. 20-30 in normal circumstances, but thats after lots of foreplay.  If I am working to the big O, he can hold off, but the positions that work for me, (IE spooning or on my tummy legs together) are ones that make it harder for him to cum, so it works perfectly. In those positions its usually 30-40 minutes.

But there are those times where we don’t feel like any foreplay and just go for the main event right away, in those cases its like 10-15 mins tops. Sometimes less.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

Funny… I’ve noticed that early on in this thread almost every woman has eluded to the fact they prefer somewhat shorter session.  So contradictory to what the movies and porn depict.

I love it.  I wish men didn’t think that jackhammering us for an hour is the key to bliss

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