(Closed) How long does your SO last in bed?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long does your SO last in bed?
    < 1 minute : (7 votes)
    1 %
    1-5 minutes : (70 votes)
    13 %
    5-10 minutes : (129 votes)
    23 %
    10-15 minutes : (95 votes)
    17 %
    15-20 minutes : (89 votes)
    16 %
    20-25 minutes : (47 votes)
    8 %
    25-30 minutes : (33 votes)
    6 %
    30+ minutes : (83 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 77
    5188 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    On average 10-15 minutes but it varies depending on how worked up he is from foreplay. He’s pretty good at controlling his ejaculation so that he waits for me to finish first. What a gentleman!

    Post # 78
    3464 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    it really depends if we’re doing a quickie we can be done in 5 minutes, but if we’re taking our time (me on top) it can last a half hour or so. We do change positions though so its not like we’re going nonstop and hard for 30 minutes more of a slow pace lol

    Post # 79
    1002 posts
    Bumble bee

    A “quickie” for us is 30 minutes.  I’m always impressed when it manages to be that fast. While I can get off in a minute or two (or multiple times in less than 10 minutes), he needs a lot longer.


    Post # 80
    2023 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @PermaStudent:  haha I do that too! I know what will speed him up and I do it after around 5-10 mins.

    Post # 81
    297 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @kansas_nurse:  what I wouldn’t give for just one encounter like THAT! get it girl lol

    Post # 82
    8439 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I think average for us is 25-30 mins, and a “quickie” is closer to 15 mins.  I think the longest was 4 hours, which sounds fun but is actually sweaty and exhausting lol.  My husband is really good about pacing himself though, so he always finishes after me.

    Post # 83
    348 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @paula1248:  Agreed. I’ve always heard people lasting that long referred to as having “whiskey dick” ie they drink too much & can’t get off.  Sounds way too uncomfortable for me. 

    Post # 84
    3941 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    25-30 minutes.  It’s way too long for me.  Not like he can help it, but it’s why we don’t do it so often. 

    Post # 85
    2494 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Usually 10 minutes. If I want him to last longer, we’ll move to a position that’s good for me but not as good for him. I remember once we had sex for an hour… I was pretty sore after that! But I do wish he lasted longer sometimes… 30 minutes would be good.

    Post # 86
    9820 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I can’t believe some women actually want a man who takes over an hour to finish!  If it actually takes you that long to finish, I’d personally think you might have problems.  It’s one thing to be able to hold back (when you could finish) to make it go longer (that is completely different), but for it to actually take that long all the time would be a huge problem for me.

    Ours is usually 15 min or under.  I can be finished in under 10 minutes, so why would I want to go longer?!  I’d rather take a couple hours break and have sex again versus just keep having sex continuously for 2 hours.  OUCH!  Required 30+ minutes every time for intercourse?  No no no no no.  I’ve got things to do.  Yeah, he could pace himself to go longer, but neither of us usually wants that.

    Last time he was taking forever (I think he was drunk) after about 25 minutes I told him I was done and we could just try again in the morning LOL.

    Post # 87
    987 posts
    Busy bee

    @MrsWBS:  im only 20 & a junior in college…no plans of marriage for 4-5 years & no formal obligations such as a 9-5 job, kids, bills etc that you may have. Just me classes & an internship.

    I have all the time there is. lol

    Post # 88
    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @SupermansSweetheart:  A) you have no idea what I have or have not experienced but I can guarantee its far more than you B) you have no idea what my knowledge of human sexuality is (hint, I have a degree in it) and C) it would be extremely, and I mean extremely, rare to have penetrative sex for 5 hours. Taking breaks does not = 5+ hours. The time a man lasts is considerd to be the time he inserts his penis to the time he climaxes without withdrawing. So yes, I call bs on 5+ hours of constant, without withdrawl, penetrative sex.

    Post # 90
    11744 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @mckey430:  haha you’re very lucky! 😉

    Post # 91
    11744 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Rrabbetsgirl:  yeah, I don’t doubt a man could keep his penis inside a woman for 5 hours and have multiple rounds, where he ejaculates, then breaks (while still inside) then resumes activity again starting the process over. But, that is much different then 1 insertion with 1 ejaculation over the course of 5 hours.

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