How long have you been ignored by your partner after a fight?!

posted 8 months ago in Relationships
Post # 91
Hostess
8404 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

Bee, I am so sorry to read your update! You deserve to be treated a million times better. What a dick. 

Post # 92
Member
501 posts
Busy bee

First— your update sounds awful and I’m sorry you are experiencing this. This doesn’t seem like it was a mutually healthy relationship. Good riddance.

 

More broadly in case it is helpful, It sounds like you both need to grow up a bit. Why do you need to know about his ex? Do you just mean scheduling details ie his time with his son or are you actually tracking her life? That doesn’t sound super healthy. 

 

Its also not ever ok to silent treat somebody. That is not a mature reaction to conflict. My partner had never ignored me for even ten minutes after a disagreement nor I him, in the seven or so years since we have been together. Certainly we sometimes agree to table a discussion for awhile because we aren’t in a position to make progress or because one of us needs to calm down. But the decision is mutual and is by no means a cutting off of contact. It sounds like you both need to work on your relationship skills and sense of self. 

Post # 93
Member
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: By the lake

lolo24 :  I’m so sorry you have to go through this.  You’re still young and I know there is someone special out there for you.  You deserve better!  Stay strong and good luck!  Take some time for yourself and recuperate.  Wishing you the best!  

Post # 94
Member
3907 posts
Honey bee

Never ever stay in a relationship with someone who employs the silent treatment. That’s all I’m going to say. I’m sorry about your update but I’m glad it brought you to your senses.

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