(Closed) How long did it take before you knew you were IN LOVE with your SO?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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Buzzing bee

About a week and a half. My SO and I were best friends before we became a couple and we always loved the people each other were and although the actual “in love” stage might have been there all along, it took about a week and a half after being officially together for us to notice it. We would spend pretty much everyday together as BFFs and we would on occasion crash at each other’s places out of necessity if we were ever too tired to drive home but suddenly this one night I really, REALLY didn’t want to go home and he really, REALLY didn’t want me to leave. I spent the night and never ended up leaving. We realised we wanted to be together all the time so we just ended up moving in together.

Post # 62
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

He knew the moment he saw me. It took him 4 months to convince me ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 63
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Busy bee

I said “I love you” 8 days after we became official lol. But we had been seeing each other for about a month. I tend to only date people who I feel very strongly for. 

Post # 64
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

He told me about 2 weeks into dating, and I reciprocated a week or so later.

Post # 65
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Helper bee

ne11y23:  Welp, I did everything wrong and backwards with mine.  He was a one night stand that was supposed to be nothing more than a booty call…but then he took me out on a date the next day and everything snowballed.  I knew I was in love about a two weeks in.  Five years later, I love him more everyday (corny, but true!)

For the record, it took him longer ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 66
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

like a month in. it was really crazy and really fast but i just knew. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 67
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

At six months but it was a year before it was that really deep “I want to marry you” kind of love. We say I love you to each other about 100 times a day now lol.

Post # 68
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I knew about 2 months in, but we didn’t say it to each other until 4 months. 

Post # 70
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

saw Darling Husband at graduation and “stalked” him on facebook our first date was amazing, we totally clicked, had a great first kiss

but in terms of relationship it sort of grew naturally over time. I didnt know him at all, so I didnt even have the confidence to tell him my parents were separating until 5 months after… (i live in a different country to them, so it is understandable that he wouldnt become aware). maybe a month before that, we sort of broke up for a week, and we were both wrecks… been together even since!! love him more every day, honestly

Post # 71
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Blushing bee

We both said I love you probably two weeks after us starting dating, but we had been friends for a while before that. We got drunk one night and slept together (not usually that type of girl, and he’s not that type of guy – so obviously there was something there) and after that he asked me out, to which I responded that I wanted to stay friends because I didn’t want to ruin our friendship. Fast forward to 4 months later, where whenever we would hang out in our group of friends I would have an urge to hold his hand or hug him or something. and not going to lie, I would get pretty jealous when another one of our friends would flirt with him. So finally my best friend and I made a pro-con list to decide whether I should tell him that I had started to have feelings for him. About a week later I finally told him that I had regretted my decision when he had initially asked me out to which he responded that he still felt the same way and it was all or nothing, none of that “seeing each other business” which I agreed to.

2 weeks later after spending time together almost every day, I told him I kinda loved him while lying in bed to which he responded “I’ve loved you since a month after I first met you”. We’ve been together now 1.5 years and live together and are getting engaged in the next couple months. I can honestly say that I enjoy being with him everyday, and he makes me laugh everyday. ๐Ÿ™‚ <3 

Post # 72
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

He started saying it by like our second date. I was beyond freaked out, lol. But three or four weeks into our relationship, I knew I loved him too. We just clicked in a way I had never experienced with anyone. 

Post # 73
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

It was very early on in our realtionship I would say two weeks and my fiance was so nervous about telling me he loved me.  I know he wanted to say it sooner than he did, in fact I think he told me he was going to marry me before he told me he loved me!?

Post # 74
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Helper bee

ne11y23:  I was a bee who knew right away.  At the time I fell in love with my SO, I was a little less guarded and cautious than I am now, and am in general a pretty passionate, outgoing person.  I make friends very quickly, for example.  I think it has a little to do with personality.  I am also a very decisive person when it comes to personal relationships-while I can change my mind about people, I tend to know right away if we will get along or if we aren’t compatible.  For that reason, I’ve never really had a friendship that turned into something more-all of the guys I’ve dated I was romantically interested in straight away.  I just had this conversation with my best friend, who is completely the opposite!

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