(Closed) How long must I wait:)

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

The cure is more cowbell =]

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

it’s an old SNL skit….you’ll have to look it up, but it wont’ be as funny now =]

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

You NEED more cowbell! (one of my fave’s too).

Just relax.  Do not fear.  Resize the other ring and voila you have your right hand ring. 

The e ring will happen when it happens.  Just get over the cold and start feeling better 🙂

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would just forget about these “deadlines” (Oct 3, March, etc.)  It will happen when it happens.  Just go about your days as normal and things will fall into place.  The engagement isn’t going to be a surprise…or very much fun, if you’re sweating it all the time.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I am not trying to be harsh just honest, but you are looking for a different answer everyday but yet it is always the same. You need to relax and not put so much into the proposal and just LET things happen! A ring is a ring, a material object. It does not take the place of a loving relationship or a marriage. It is a symbol. Just enjoy your relationship and take it one day at a time. Honestly, thats how we live, my Darling Husband and I. We do not stress about deadlines, due dates etc. We are so busy and hardly get to see each other that we cherish every moment that we get, even if its 5 minutes a day only with each other. I am afraid if you constantly worry about this you are going to miss out on so much and the whole fun phase of getting engaged etc. I am rooting for you and I know its going to happen, but just let it happen. Its out of your hands. Just have some faith in your man and let life happen, you cannot control it. I honestly cannot give anymore advice and I really do not know what anyone can say differently to you. Good luck and I will be watching for when it happens!

Post # 9
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Newbee

Haha…I just looked up and watched the video for “More Cowbell”.

I think MissGreen’s advice sounds just perfect. I am waiting for my ring and I know he has it. And at first I was a lil mad…but I’m sure eventually it’ll happen and it’ll be great. But yeah…the October-March is a long time. Just keep yourself occupied. Tongue out

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

MissGreens advise is exactly what I was thinking. Maybe you should start a new hobby or do a month full of creative recipes that you have never tried that way your mind will be on something else

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