Post # 1
So I wrote my own vow using a guide I saw online. I’m really very happy with it coz it has everything I want to say to my FH, very personal and sincere. But when I practiced reading it and timed myself with a stopwatch… it’s 4.5mins.
Is that too long or is that okay?
Post # 4
Not too long necesarily, but you might wanna compare notes with your FH — if you’re writing your own, you might want to come up with a target time or word length that you should both be around so they’re close to even.
I mean you don’t HAVE to do that, I just know I’d feel really awkward if I spilled my heart out for 4 minutes and FH barely said a minute or so.