(Closed) how long should i wait to call ppl about rsvps?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t know what is proper etiquette, but I feel like I would start calling 1 – 2 weeks after the RSVP date.  Mainly because you probably have some work to do with RSVP cards and might need to notify the caterer the final count.  My count is due 2 weeks before the wedding.

Post # 5
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i think you can call tomorrow! they’re late, they have the right to be bugged. you have things to do, they’re being rude, so it’s their fault if they get a phone call from you.

Post # 6
809 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’d start calling right away, especially if there is a good number to call. They’ve past the deadline! They should expect it 🙂

Post # 7
9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would do it Tuesday or Wednesday.  Obviously no post today since it’s Sunday, so if somebody actually put it in the mailbox before the reply date, it should be here by Wednesday for sure.  Otherwise, I’d say they forgot and could use a reminder.

Post # 8
178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Our RSVP’s are due next Thursday.  We’ve heard from most people but still expecting to have to make some phone calls to family that never RSVP’ed.  I plan on calling any of my family/friends on Friday and Saturday and will have my Fiance do the same. 

Post # 9
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

We asked for our replies a mere 3 weeks before the wedding (!!!) so I think we’ll start calling ASAP. I need a count for favors, place cards, caterer, etc….. 

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