(Closed) how long till you cut your guest that haven’t responded

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
20 posts
  • Wedding: June 2011

I personally would call them just to be sure. 🙂 That eliminates the awkward no-rsvp group that is bound to show up. =) It will help keep the stress off too! 

Post # 4
4520 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would also just call them and ask whether they’re coming. There will always be people who don’t rsvp but still show up for the wedding, as abrooks1989  pointed out (and as I can personally attest–it happened at our wedding).

Even if you want to call/email them to say, “Hey, you missed the deadline and we can’t include you anymore,” you should communicate SOME final decision with them, for your own sanity. 

Bummer that people are so flaky. I feel your pain!!

Post # 5
46413 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Give up and phone them. RSVP seems to still be a foreign language to some people.

The reality is you are the one who needs to confirm the numbers for your caterer.

Post # 6
3314 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree with the other ladies.  Call to be sure otherwise you will have unexpected guests saying “but you KNEW I was coming!”.  lol

Post # 7
6473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

I’m giving our guests until the cut-off, then will do a mad week of phoning and chasing up. If I still can’t get through to them after trying, I’ll be leaving them off.

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