MemberSo I bought a present off a friend’s registry 2 weeks before their wedding, which was 4 weeks ago. I totally get people are slow about thank you notes out, but there were some issues with the billing and such for the gift and I wanna make sure that they actually got it! It was exspensive. But how long should I wait to see if I get a thank you note?
Member6-8 weeks, then I would ask. Just to make sure she got it & I would let her know about the billing error, so she doesn’t think you are rushing.
MemberYes I would give them another 2 weeks because some items take 8 business days to ship (2 weeks) and they may be busy post wedding, especially if they went on honeymoon right after.
Post wedding, my priority would be combining bank accounts, stock accounts, changing names for SS, CC, passport, bank accounts etc, depositing checks, getting ready and going on honeymoon… and then I will think about Thank You cards/gifts. Not to mention some couples are moving in, combining homes etc…
If it is really bothering you, shoot them an email but let them no they can respond at their own leisure.
MemberYes I would give them another 2 weeks because some items take 8 business days to ship (2 weeks) and they may be busy post wedding, especially if they went on honeymoon right after.
Post wedding, my priority would be combining bank accounts, stock accounts, changing names for SS, CC, passport, bank accounts etc, depositing checks, getting ready and going on honeymoon… and then I will think about Thank You cards/gifts. Not to mention some couples are moving in, combining homes etc…
If it is really bothering you, shoot them an email but let them no they can respond at their own leisure.
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