(Closed) How long until you said the the three little words: \"I Love You.\" (POLL)

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How long until you said "I love you"?
    Less than 3 Months : (127 votes)
    51 %
    3 to 6 Months : (72 votes)
    29 %
    6 Months to 1 Year : (35 votes)
    14 %
    It took more than a year! : (11 votes)
    4 %
    Other: Please Comment :) : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 46
    Member
    740 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    We spent all of our first days and nights curled up together and talking as much as we could (between going in to our respective jobs) – by the end of the first night we spilled a lot of our whole lives to each other. On the second night he said something along the lines of, “I know that I already love you.”

    We’ve said it ever since. I suppose that may be strange to others but neither of us was very embarrassed, even at the time. We nodded and kept getting to know each other.

    Post # 47
    Member
    2348 posts
    Buzzing bee

    KateyGrace:  I know it sounds crazy, but I actually don’t remember who said it first or when. We knew each other for about a month and a half before we started dating. After about two weeks of dating we moved in together. We’re married and have been together ever since (7 years). 

    Post # 48
    Member
    1609 posts
    Bumble bee

    KateyGrace:  I think it varies from person to person, as well as couple to couple. People move at different paces and it just takes longer for some.

    My now fiance told me when we were two months in, I knew he genuinely felt that way and was being truthful but he reached the point sooner than me and at the time I was honest in saying I was ‘falling’ for him but not there yet. I feel that you have to really know someone to truly love them and at the time I didn’t feel like I knew him well enough/wasn’t there yet and I wasn’t going to lie about how I felt and where I was. If anything it strengthened our relationship because he knew I was honest and he could trust me, that I would also tell him when I was there. And I did, when we were 6 months in!

    Tell him when you think the time is right and you are sure that is how you feel. 

    Post # 49
    Member
    558 posts
    Busy bee

    Around 3 months after we started dating.

    Post # 50
    Member
    40 posts
    Newbee

    Probably 3 weeks after starting to date. I think things escalated quickly because we were basically spending every day together, and we also worked at the same restaurant. I had worked with him for about a year prior.

    Post # 51
    Member
    485 posts
    Helper bee

    We weren’t even dating yet, but we had been in a “friends with benefits” type situation for about three months.  He’d been wanting to date me the whole time, but I’d just been through a really bad breakup before we got together and didn’t want to jump into anything official too soon.  I slipped and said it, and I realize now I was being honest, but at the time I panicked and said I still wasn’t ready to date him.  Luckily he was a trooper through all the drama and we’ve now been together happily for over two years.

    Post # 52
    Member
    176 posts
    Blushing bee

    Within 2 months of talking I think? We talked for a month online before he came to visit me and then we said it the next month on one of our visits together. Perfect!

    Post # 53
    Member
    544 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2017 - Not sure

    I told my Fiance after only being together for two and 3/4 Months. I had a bit too much to drink, but he knew I meant it. He waited until after we were together for about 6 months before he said he loved me. But the Ilove you was only in an email. He actually said it in person on Christmas 😃, which was almost a month later.

    Post # 54
    Member
    80 posts
    Worker bee

    Eckle:  Wow!! What a coincidence!!

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