(Closed) How long were you courting before your first kiss?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 121
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yeah, I lasted all of a couple hours.  He tried for a cheek peck and I went straight for the lips!It was a tad awkward…

Post # 122
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Blushing bee

@MuchGreater: Wow, that’s GREAT! It’s hard enough to find other people on here who are waiting until their wedding night to have sex, but I didn’t think I’d find someone on here who is waiting until their wedding day to kiss. Have you read “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” by Joshua Harris? I loved his story of how he and his wife waited until their wedding to kiss, and his explanation of why they did it. I think it’s “technically” okay to kiss before you’re married if it’s not too much of a temptation, but the more intimate you are before marriage, the more intimate you will want to be, so it’s dangerous. I want the question in my mind to be “How pure can I be?” not “How far can I go before it’s not okay?” My FH and I both would have liked to wait to kiss, but we ended up kissing when we’d been best friends for about a year and a half and courting for two days. We recently decided to try to stop kissing again…it’s ridiculously hard though 😛 Just keep pushing through though…you’ll be there before you know it!

Post # 123
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Our first date. No regrets whatsoever.

Post # 124
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@panterapeach: HAHAHAHA That picture just made me laugh out loud!  I love it!!!!!

 

As for kisses … 3 hours after a car bomb and whiskey bender when we met … we’ve been together since we met 6 years ago! Ohhhh Rock and Roll and Boys … the old days

 

Post # 125
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Bee Keeper

On our first date, so… a couple of hours? Heh.

Post # 126
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

EDIT: I didn’t realize there were 4 pages of comments! I just got through the second page and saw I had posted this same story before! oops :]

Me and my SO were “courting”/”talking” for a little over three months, when one night we were just sitting on the couch and he popped kissed me for the first time super quick. Right after he was like, “So, I want to ask you a question…” and then he asked me to officially be his girlfriend :] He says that is the only time in his life he’s ever been scared of anything…that was his very first kiss. We’ve been together for 15 months now :]

Post # 127
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Blushing bee

P.S. He was my first kiss Smile

Post # 128
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

My Fiance was my first kiss. He knew I had never kissed anyone and that I didn’t want to kiss him until I was sure he was “the one.” (I figured I’d waited this long, why not wait for the man I’ll marry?) I think about a month after we were together he asked if he could kiss me. I said yes, and expected him to do so right away. Instead he wanted to know what had caused this change! He had told me before we started dating that he knew we were meant to be together. I thought he was crazy when he said it, but it didn’t take very long for me to see that it was true. After I told him I knew he was the man I wanted to marry, he very sweetly kissed me.

We enjoy kissing very much, and we’re really looking forward to sex. Like the OP we’re waiting to have sex until we get married. Some days that’s pretty difficult, but we’re committed to our decision. I’m certain the rewards will make the wait worth it!

Post # 129
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Blushing bee

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@blayne7: What happened to you sounds very similar to what happened to me. Way to go! Laughing

Post # 130
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

We weren’t even officially a couple when we first had sex (needless to say, kissing came before that), so I guess I’d fall under the “before the first date” umbrella. However, we intended to have a brief fling, nothing more, but then we both got attached. 🙂

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