(Closed) How long were you LIVING TOGETHER before you got engaged?

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How long were you living together before you got engaged?

    6 months or less

    6 months-1 year

    1-2 years

    More than 2 years

  • Post # 62
    21 posts
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We were living together for 1 month before we got engaged.

    Post # 63
    122 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m not much help since we aren’t living together till we are married.

    Post # 64
    2155 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We were together 1 year when we moved in together. We’ve been living together for 3 years since then (our 4 year anniversary is at the end of the summer) …and still no engagement. I moved 4 hours away from my family and friends to be with him since he had a job after grad school and I did not.


    Honestly, I wish I would have pushed for an engagement before I moved to be with him. We had discussed marriage and knew it was something we both wanted long before moving in together and me moving to be with him. I told him that I wouldn’t move unless there was a ring in my future. I wish I had been more specific re: timeline since I moved almost a year ago and I don’t have the sense he is even saving for a ring. I know each guy is different but if i were you, I’d wait for a more concrete commitment before moving to another country to be with him. The phrase why buy the cow…is antiquated but still very relevant in my opinion.

    Post # 65
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    My fiance did not want to live together until we were married.

    We were abelt to compromis and he moved in two weeks after we got engaged 🙂

    We had been together for over 2 years when we got engaged. We lived in the same town together and i moved to the lower mainland for him and his job and found my own place to live (alone!! which was super hard) until we got engaged.

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