(Closed) How long would it take you to save 15k?

posted 3 years ago in Money
Post # 2
1560 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

pinkshoes:  without making major lifestyle sacrifices, a year. With major lifestyle sacrifices, but still living comfortably, 6 months.

Post # 3
1270 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

With FI it would take us about 5 months…by myself probably a year.

Post # 4
817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo

pinkshoes:  I wouldn’t contribute to an IVF GoFundMe page, but then again I probably also wouldn’t give/lend money to a family member for IVF, adoption, etc. I really feel that if you don’t have some savings and money management skills before a kid comes along you’re going to be screw-ew-ewed once the baby shows up. Plus I’d be worried I’d missed my chance–people are only going to donate a ton of money to you once in your life, max, and what happens if IDK your house burns down or someone gets sick and can’t work or some other tragedy happens? (This may be slightly colored by the fact that I’m not all that fond of kids so spending $15,000 to obtain one seems like folly.)

Anyway, to answer your question, my DH and I saved (and spent) a bit over $15000 in around 8 months for our wedding. Our combined income at the time was between $80-90,000. It wasn’t super fun–very few happy hours, dinners out, new clothes, etc–but we maintained our friendships, didn’t kill one another, and got to have the big party we wanted without going into debt. And we (mostly I) are not all that good with money.

Post # 5
1904 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

It would take us 7-8 months to save up that much money and I would never set up a GFM page for something like that. It is our decision to go that route, and therefore it is our responsibility to save up the funds to make it happen. For me GFM is for something disastrous — a friend gets cancer and can’t pay their medical bills or someone’s house burns down and they lose everything. I would not contribute to an IVF GoFundMe page.

Post # 6
932 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

A close friend of mine will require IVF to conceive their much longed for baby. While I know they could afford to do it if they need to, that is a large expense. I would LOVE to contribute to an IVF fund if they ever chose to have one. Its already been a huge struggle for them, and if I could help in any way possible I would be overjoyed to.

Sometimes its not about whether or not a couple can afford to do it, its a way to show your support and help to make an unbearable situation a bit easier.

Post # 7
932 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I forgot to answer the original question! By myself, likely a year. With DH, much faster.

Post # 8
3280 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I could take it from our savings now and not be affected. If I was starting from 0, being a grad student it would take awhile, but when we’re both working it takes about a year or so. I think it’s a personal decision to have kids and the parent’s responsibility to fund all things related to the children. If family/friends would like to donate something (i.e. baby showers) it should be up to them and be unprompted. 

Post # 9
177 posts
Blushing bee

It takes me 2-3 months to save that much, but I am obviously not the norm.  

My issue with these gofundme causes is when people use them to fundraise for things that are entirely optional – trips, unnecessary purchases, yes, even IVF.  Having children is not a necessity, no matter how badly you want it.  And children are expensive.  If you can’t afford IVF without crowdsourcing, you probably aren’t financially ready for a child.  People don’t like to hear that they aren’t ready for children though.


Post # 10
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Hmm, you guys are somehow quick savers… If I save $250 per month and my husband saves $300 per month.. that would take us about 2 years and 3 months and wouldn’t affect our current spending habits much at all.  If we scrimped and sacrificed we might whiddle that down to a year and a half realistically?

Post # 11
602 posts
Busy bee

if I did it alone probably 2 years. husband and I both saving, about a year. 

Post # 13
566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MissKayDee:  I’m saying,right? Lol 

it would take me years…that’s with my husband. Let’s just say 2.5 years maybe. 

Post # 14
2514 posts
Sugar bee

At the rate we save now, i.e. still living comfortably/can stand to give up some things but don’t, about 15 months.

If we needed it faster we’d have no problem cutting cable, selling my motorcycle, saving more each month from our paychecks, move to a smaller house depending how desparate, etc.

We started out together with nothing but our jobs since neither of our parents could help with anything. I paid for school myself and have some loans from it, he was in the military so has no school loans. We both have decent paying jobs now but it was a real struggle in college. So we’re just starting up!

Post # 15
12160 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

pinkshoes:  in our current living situation, assuming that all our debts were paid off we could save 15k in about 8 months – right now we can’t do that because we’re paying an obscene amount on debt.

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