(Closed) How loooooong do we “have” to wait?

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: How long do we "have" to wait
    1-5 years : (3 votes)
    5 %
    5 years : (7 votes)
    12 %
    5-10 years : (4 votes)
    7 %
    10 years : (23 votes)
    40 %
    15 years : (3 votes)
    5 %
    20 years : (18 votes)
    31 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    If we were doing a VR (which we both don’t want to do, the first time was stressful enough!) I would want to wait 10 years, if not longer.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    At least 10 but ideally much, much longer like when you have full adult children.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I would say at least 10, if not more.

    Honestly, unless there were unusual circumstances (like Destination Wedding with no reception, JOP and wanting a celebration, etc) I wouldn’t really take it seriously if someone had a 1 year or 5 year VR. It’s just not long enough to warrant it, in my opinion.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1398 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    There was a couple on SYTTD that did a 1 year anniversary vow renewal with just the two of them!  I thought it was really sweet.  For a big party though, I’d say 5-10 years. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    1626 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’d go even longer than 10 and say 20 or so. Make it a milestone anniversary.

    Post # 8
    Member
    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Definitely a milestone like 10+ years. Not to be cynical (we all want to think we will be together forever as we are getting married), but the average marriage these days lasts 7-8 years. So I would say definitely more than 10!

    Post # 9
    Member
    10366 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I voted 20 years +. I think it should be a really big anniversary to warrant spending the money and dragging your family/friends out all over again. If it’s just the two of you, do it whenever you like. I think it’s a bit showy/tacky to make a big deal out of renewing vows quickly (1-5 years, for sure)

    Post # 10
    Member
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think 10 years is perfect for a vow renewal!

    Post # 11
    Member
    7300 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @runsyellowlites: You can do one at one year with just the 2 of you. And then maybe have one for everyone at 10 years.

    Post # 12
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    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    People do a vow renewal as early as one year after…  Heidi Klum and Seal have one every year!!

    Post # 13
    Member
    100 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’d say it depends on how big of a party you’d want to have. I don’t think you have to wait super long if you don’t want to. If you really want one, I think you could get by with doing it 1-5 years after the wedding if you kept it small, intimate, and tasteful, and if you made it clear that you wouldn’t be expecting gifts from the same guests who attended your wedding… but then, I think I’m pretty open-minded about such things. 

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